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Dating thread no 49

999 replies

JulietteMontague · 01/04/2013 15:17

All daters welcome here.

OP posts:
JulietteMontague · 04/04/2013 16:05

Sp It's weird. I don't get cock shots from my current profiles, I do get men who want to be dominated. I think they see and hear what they want to.

Kin are we talking long beard or close cropped here? If long, you could re-create the scenes from a Joy of Sex [first edition]

OP posts:
Movingforward123 · 04/04/2013 16:10

Oh the guy that I was speaking to on Sunday has messaged me to ask how's my leg! I wonder if he wants a date now or if he's just here to chat rubbish!

SPsFanjoTheBigStickyHaribo · 04/04/2013 16:13

Someone I've been talking to for a couple of days. I'm not sure yet. It might sound bad but hes in the army. I had a bad experience with an army lad before so that's making me judge.

He seems nice enough, get on well through messaging and that but I think I'm expecting him to be another married nutter.

KinNora · 04/04/2013 16:28

Snigger, just read Joy of Sex comment. Think he's probably filthy also that he's gone to the bar. Again. Oh dear.

TigsytheTiger · 04/04/2013 16:54

just popping in too!

Kin Grin to 'joy of sex circa 1976', waiting for the next update ......

OWW good luck with Cakey tonight, he sounds promising!

with regards to having the names of an ex - I will admit that I have been married 3 times Blush and they all had the same christian name Blush Blush. Luckily Mr EA does NOT have the same name and I am taking that as a very very good sign.

Ike think you may just like the sound of MrH, just a little bit?

SPsFanjoTheBigStickyHaribo · 04/04/2013 16:58

Think I jinxed myself. Been talking to someone and he has told me his name. Yes its the same as my sons dad and he lives near me. Like a 2 minute walk! Whats the odds on that Grin

I'm now thinking I have seen before.

TigsytheTiger · 04/04/2013 16:59

sp from my personal experience of one, the Army is not a red flag, I have bagged myself a very nice ex soldier, so I wouldn't let that as a single factor put you off Smile

SPsFanjoTheBigStickyHaribo · 04/04/2013 17:02

Tigsy He also has the same first name as the original nutter Grin Think Ill take the plunge. Dont have to see him again if not keen

lubeybooby · 04/04/2013 17:08

My two main exes had the same name (DD's dad, and then my now exdh)

Kin hope things are continuing to go well (if a bit tipsy :o )

OhWesternWind · 04/04/2013 18:13

Well he's just cancelled, says he's stuck at work, lots of apologising, but still ... No idea if it's an excuse or not Sad Hmm

KinNora · 04/04/2013 18:27

That's very disappointing OWW any mention of him re-arranging ?

OhWesternWind · 04/04/2013 18:29

He says he hopes we can rearrange .... What happened to you then missis?

ohmyrainydays · 04/04/2013 18:35

My date was amazing. I have a massive smile on my face. It was so relaxed and we didn't stop talking. I was almost sick with nerves before and i was shaking like a leaf but that soon went. Date number two will hopefully be very soon. Sod the rules I'm already smitten.

lubeybooby · 04/04/2013 19:09

A cautious and hopeful yay from me rainy! Glad it was good :o

lubeybooby · 04/04/2013 19:10

Kin... update? woss ocuurin' ?

ohmyrainydays · 04/04/2013 19:13

Thanks lubey.

KinNora · 04/04/2013 19:15

Rainy that sounds good, fingers crossed for date two, eh ?

OWW he's been very keen thus far,hasn't he ? Hopefully he'll get his arse in gear.

Date Report ( needs some kind of duh-de-duh-de-duh-duh theme tune )

You know when I was moaning about him being late ? He was actually already in there, we'd just not spotted each other. Gave me a belated birthday card and 3 gift wrapped blocks of my favourite chocolate ( tick for attention to detail ).

Not really my type physically, not quite as tall as I like and did I mention the beard at all ? ( for all you pognophiles out there - close cropped, salt and pepper ) attractive twinkly eyes, smelled fabulous. He's very interesting, very, I dunno, old school charmer, excellent manners.

Deffo, deffo, deffo a right perv. Made a 'joke' about dropping his napkin on the floor as an excuse to check out my heels, actually sniffed me at the train station, slightly in the style of Hannibal Lecter smelling Jodie Foster. Kissed me on each cheek and then a quick kiss on the lips as we said goodbye. Wanted to see me again on Sunday but obviously I'll be on my way back from seeing Software at that point (not that he knows that) so tentatively arranged for next Friday.

KinNora · 04/04/2013 19:18

(I'm sobering up now - 2 plum wines and 3 Southern Comforts)

ike1 · 04/04/2013 19:20

He sounds like a right character Kin...I like it!

ike1 · 04/04/2013 19:20

Oh god ....I love a plum wine!

SPsFanjoTheBigStickyHaribo · 04/04/2013 19:22

pognophiles Whats one of those?! Daren't google Grin

He sounds good Kin Not keen in the hair sniffing but that's probably because my hair constantly smells like smoke Grin

ike1 · 04/04/2013 19:22

Are you sure he wasnt bending down to check out your knick knacks?

ike1 · 04/04/2013 19:23

Can you envisage soing 'the beast' with him Kin??

ike1 · 04/04/2013 19:23

doing

ohmyrainydays · 04/04/2013 19:27

Are you looking forward to seeing him again Kin? He sounds fun and interesting.