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As a femaley womany type how do I show a guy I fancy him?

213 replies

SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:33

Help!!

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InNeedOfBrandy · 24/11/2012 18:35

Christmas card needs to be a funny one about bus drivers Grin
Go for it and fuck it if he doesn't want you that only means your one more step to the right guy. I would be less subtle then clingy dress I would be in the street with a towel wrapped around me saying I just had to rush out of the shower and give you this before I forgot.... but I am not suggesting you do that unless you want to

SoleSource · 24/11/2012 18:37

Just a towel? Lol

InNeed can I pm you?

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MistletoeAndTomHardyPlease · 24/11/2012 18:52

Don't worry about your size, my sisters a size 22ish and the only attention I ever get in my direction is when shes stood next to me! Envy

Go get 'em girl! Wink

Mrswhiskerson · 24/11/2012 18:52

Thank you :) it sounds like you are taking really positive steps you deserve a good man , hope it all goes well x

SoleSource · 24/11/2012 19:04

Thank you Mrs :) one step at a time. Losing wright now and can se me at target. Got a job, waiting for CRB check. Might lime a bit of man action.

Then next year I shall return to my.therapist and go forward to even beter.things.

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InNeedOfBrandy · 24/11/2012 19:11

I typed out a post and sent it and now its not here Confused

Try again!

Yes in a towel but then I tend to be and go over the top, and I don't even know why I'm giving you advice as I don't have a love life myself! I do love that feeling of knowing you like someone though!

And yes I love pms Smile

SoleSource · 24/11/2012 19:16

Yeah I know it is a silly, girly high for me. Loathe I can't control it. Just want sex, but then want more.

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InLoveWithDavidTennant · 25/11/2012 00:01

Fat? Utter tosh!

I'm fat, never asked a guy out, and am happily married to a skinny thing.

If you're not confident just start chatting about every day stuff. Get to know him a bit. Or if you're feeling brave just go for a snog and see what happens.

LapsedPacifist · 25/11/2012 00:09

YY Exactly what MrsWhiskrtson says is she my twin?

Grin Grin

You Go Gel! Grin

C'mon - look at all us those fat middle-aged mums out there! We have blokes! We have sex! We are fancied! Stop believing everything you read in magazines about what men want!

They are FAR less choosy than theDaily Mail Meeja would have you believe!
They want cuddles and giggles and companionship and comfy nights in too as well as the odd bit of red hot sex ...

SoleSource · 25/11/2012 11:13

Getting nervous. I know I will balls it up.

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InSPsFanjoNoOneHearsYouScream · 25/11/2012 11:23

Grow a fanjo woman and ask the fucker out!

Grin
SoleSource · 25/11/2012 11:26

Roarrrrr

Lol

Screamed!

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SoleSource · 25/11/2012 11:34

I bet he is married.

He had a day off for a hospital appt and he has no hair :(

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cronullansw · 25/11/2012 11:39

An old pal of mine is/was a pop star. Several #1's, stacks of top 10's.

He'd very, very often go for larger girls, well, I say 'larger' I mean, big.... there IS hope for us all. Go for it, ask, talk, communicate, be bold.

Men love, LOVE, confidence.

SoleSource · 25/11/2012 13:39

I am wierd around men now.

Hello, how are you?

What did you and your wife do at tbe weekend, anything nice?

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SoleSource · 25/11/2012 13:52

Come out, cpme out Drinky!

He is slimish but nice arms :) and watch

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AnyFucker · 25/11/2012 13:52

Miss out the "your wife" bit..it sounds like you are fishing (we know you are....but you don't want him to think that)

Just ask him how his weekend was. If he opens up a bit, ask what he did. If there is a long term partner, it should come out at that point.

AnyFucker · 25/11/2012 13:53

slimish ?

erk

oh ! he is slim, I get it Grin

SoleSource · 25/11/2012 13:53

:) thank you AF :)

I am a rubbish at tbis stuff. Too impatient.

Can't wait to find out :):):)

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SoleSource · 25/11/2012 13:54

Lol AF!! ,quite :)

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AnyFucker · 25/11/2012 13:58

nice arms are good

has he got one suntanned one and one white one ?

SoleSource · 25/11/2012 14:00

Lmao!!! Good one.

I only ever see.him from one side, as he is sitting down driving the .bus, nice blue eyes, gorgeous accent, chirpy type, just polite and happy. He looks tall. Lol

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AnyFucker · 25/11/2012 14:01

how are you going to do this then ?

are you going to have to stick your head through the window to talk to him ?

SoleSource · 25/11/2012 14:12

Lol you're making me laughmuch

Lol

There is a big door with steps and his seat is next to it.

He always says hello really quite cheery. He said

What is your namr? What is your Christian name? ,I told him abd he reoeated ot and I asked him whete he was from because his accent seems Aussie. He said he was.borni.Italy but he.doesn't havean Italian accent. I told him I had an Italian American friend in USA he said oooooh. Then he sat round in his seat and stared right at me with tbe most cute smile with his hand over his mouth.

I blushed said ok bye and shut the door.

Next day was a bit awkward I thought tbere is a definate attraction I hope so :)

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AnyFucker · 25/11/2012 14:21

He had his hand over his mouth ? Perhaps he has halitosis, poor chap. I think you need to get a bit nearer and rule that out before this goes any further. After you have established he is single of course Smile