we got married very young and by the time I was 22/23 it was like living with my brother or something and I just could spend the next 50 years sleeping next to someone that I didn't fancy. Plus, I'd just started college and was meeting new people and wanting to go out instead of being a housewife with young children. He was more settled, worked hard, watched boring tv and liked a quiet life. The usual story. But, he is a nice guy and would make someone happy given the chance. He just never goes out as he works shifts 4 days on 4 days off and has the dc for the four days he's off. He doesn't get much chance to meet people being a single parent.
He has two children, both with me. And even though we are a long time divorced I still couldn't have chosen a better father for my boys.
It's just that he bores me to tears, irritates me just by being in the same room as me and I don't find him physically attractive.
Someone else might though [hopeful]