As a femaley womany type how do I show a guy I fancy him?

[SoleSource]

Help!!

He did introduce himself months ago. He asked me my name the other day. We have had small chats. He is friendly, upbeat, interesting and sexy.

Prob married :(

Ok well do the christmas present thing and then you can ask if he's got a wife, or on christmas card write to mr bus driver and wife. He will then set you straight on that front! YOLO

I would lime to buy him a present for ChristmasInNeed :)

I amsure AF will be fed up of my relationship threads if I did date him lol

it might be best to find out if he is single first

Just start up a 'normal' conversation with him. Ask him how his weekend was/what he got up to (you can also then maybe ascertain whether he is single!); ideal timing now to talk about Christmas etc, has he been to see the xmas lights in town/Christmas markets etc - if not, ask if he fancies going with you :) Job's a good 'un. Good luck! (And let me know if it works because I want to try something similar with my Tesco delivery man :))

Yes good idea.Brandy l
I will ask on Monday haha. Prob go bright red .

oh sole it's not your weight or fear of rejection that's gonna be the reason for a knock back. it's your lack of four poster .

i like brandy's style!

My asda delivery man is quite cute, we bonded over stolen jam tarts

Solesource just do it, whats the worst that can happen? He's says no sorry (mumbles excuse) and you don't think about it again and he gets out your head. Or he says yes and you have a few dates and stop fancying him or 3 you end up in a relationship. YOLO You only live once.

@ noseinabook trollop!!

Honestly, I think you concentrate on enjoying being single for a while- I remember threads from you recently agonising about internet dating etc etc, but haven't you got a tiny baby at the moment? I really wouldn't be making new romantic relationships a priority in that situation. Apologies if I've mixed you up with another poster.

InNeed

I'm gladnot just me LOL

Hi Bof yeah somebody else. Wish I did have a baby.:)

SoleSource how very dare you?! I even walk him back to his van (under the pretence of DGS wanting to help put the crates back on it). Sunday evenings are the highlight of my week :)

Ah, I'm sorry. Good job really- it would cramp your style in the four poster a bit

nose lmao!! Ask him out,.do InNeeds suggestion. Report back here tomorrow. :):):)

Hey Bof no worries lol

I think you should wait until you feel better about yourself because it seems you have low self esteem and when you go into a relationship feeling lucky to have that person it sets the power balance too far in their favour you should know you are good enough for anyone

Plus if you ask someone out expecting them to reject you they probably will not because you are not attractive but because they will get the wrong signals from you, go up full of confidence and your attractiveness instantly goes up

Don't be scared of rejection just think if they say no they are leaving the path open for the man who reall really wants to be with you, you deserve no less

I say this as a five foot ten size sixteen to eighteen who has had no problems attracting men despite being told men like petite skinny girls
Good luck!

I aim to be a curvy 12. I'm a 26 now.So long way to go. Too big for most guys.

MrsWhisketsonfab post and tnank you :):):)

I am spul searching. After eighteen months of Psychodynamic therapy, I feel like some male company. I do think my fear of rejection might be bigger than the reality of it as I have discovered after therapy. Single four years. Gotta try what I paid forty pounds a week to learn about.

Lets see

Christmas card suggestion is green lighted.

I AM EXCITED!!

Hurry up Monday :):):)

If he's skinny like a rake he might like cushion for pushin'.

Ful make up,.hair done clingy dress at 7.50am.