He's just been to a nude lap dancing bar :(

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H just back from nude lap dancing bar, he has been on stag dos before and he knows I hate it. I'm gutted, he says I should forget this one "mistake" as he (allegedly) didn't has a private dance as he knows I would hate that. He claims he was just curious (inspite having been before and knowing all about it!!) Being in front of a naked woman that isnt me, for kicks just feels like cheating on some level. Oh and he wasn't on a stag tonight just out with a friend.

Found out as I Where's My Iphone'd him as he was meant to just be in our town, and I thought he'd be heading home.

We're meant to be going away on a romantic break in a few weeks, but a the minute I don't want him near me :(

How would u deal with this?

Some fairly vitriolic responses there, ladies. An earler post suggested that strip clubs are an infringement of marriage vows but it works both ways; you all made vows too. So, yes, Posie Parker, welcome your man home; why not?

And Cox is my real name. What can I do?

I've been to one....out of couriosity ( with male collegues once) god those women are physically fit. I had a private dane. I found the whole experience very interesting .

I won't go back but i wouldn't be overly upset if my H had been on a stag do. If he went with a friend well i'd be upset really why did he go?

They are dancers not prostitutes.

Is your first name really "sucks dirty?" And do fuck off with your fucking backward and frankly misogynistic crap.

Lap dancing is a hideous addition to most towns and cities, it increasing sexual crimes against women at the very least, as well as being the gateway for many women to years of sex work.

baby did she stick her crotch in your face or do they save that move just for the male customers

But I couldn't resist that, Fintan. I went to a club with my wife once and the dancer did stick her boobs in my wife's face.

Jonnycock and his ilk serve a useful function. Whenever anyone suggests to you that you ought not to be so "uptight" and tolerate, nay welcome, your partner's use of paid sexual services, you can reimnd yourself that if you did that you would end up with the sort of man who thinks "inadvertinently" is a real English word.
And nobody wants that.

Wife? ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

I didn't ask you, Cock, I asked BabyRabbits. But thanks so much for sharing, the image of a man getting a girl to stick her tits in another woman's face, for money at that, has put me off my afternoon wedge of Victoria Sandwich, thereby saving me several hundred calories.

KKK

She danced suggestively, i suppose she did wiggle her crotch at me and certainly had her nipples close to my face.

In all honesty she mad me feel like i was entirely her focus. I enjoyed it, it wasn't seedy, was very very expensive. ( not that i paid)

It was interesting and a fun night out ( cocktails probably helped) i was transfixed by how well they could dane and how strong they are on the pole.

All so long ago now..long before children when i worked in the city and wore a five inch heel!

I think we have had an invasion of twats from grunternet everytime we have one of these threads, a klaxon goes off there...

I agree, Mad things have been very strange around here this afternoon, and not just this thread.

That's interesting Baby, sounds like you didn't get the full private service.

And Cox is my real name

Yeah - so is Ben Dover.

Lol maybe not :-)

'Lap dancers not prostitutes.' They are women of the night however you want to dress it up to be acceptable. Earning a living from the sex industry. It's not acceptable.

"women of the night" there is a quaint phrase.
It may very well be that neither occupation is considered respectable but I'm a lot more interested in stigmatising the demand side of the transaction, given the supply side may not have a huge number of other options.

I would be more likely to say the users of the sex industry have "something of the night" about them

and I'm not talking the sexy vampire that is Brad Pitt

So, it is not acceptable for men to watch strippers but it is okay for women to look at Brad Pitt's bum when he forgets to put his armour on?

Brad Pitt doesn't count. He's a film star.

I have never seen Brad Pitt's naked bum. Have you, John ? Sorry , Jonny ?

Does Brad Pitt have a strip club? Gosh you learn something new everyday.

He had a Fight Club. Not sure that's the same thing, though.

Perhaps Brad has shown his bum inadvertinently. That makes it perfectly acceptable, doesn't it Jonny.