How many men / women have you slept with?

[ElizabethX]

Assuming you can remember that is.

Today for the first time ever I counted and it is 14 / 0*.

I am 35. This is just under 1 a year since I became sexually active (started late...4th term at uni). I'm not counting youthful messing about, I mean full sex.

This doesn't seem so many to me and obv its going to depend when you became monogamous anyway. But, I have seen articles that suggest a much lower figure, eg 7 for men 4 for women.

Am I a bit of a slapper (which I would be fine with, I enjoyed it) or are all these people just lying? I think the latter, because judging by who I have spoken to 14 is much more typical than 4.

• 14 men I think ** no women I am sure

Am 28.

0/0 I am a freak.

^ you're not a freak!!

I'm 28

3/2

Not sure, somewhere between 20 and 40 but I'm in my 40s and had fun as a student.
For the past 11 years it has only been 1 so I've slowed down alot.
I don't regret sleeping with a few blokes when younger.
No women, probably would have have if I'd met the right one at the right time but I fancy far fewer women.

24/0 relationship/one night stands

760ish/54 workwise ( worked in the 'adult entertainment' biz for a while).

28 been in a relationship 5 years.

20 ish men and about five women

Oh I'm 27. Been with DP 3 years.

Funnily enough now-DP was also my first (we dated in school) which is rather sweet I think

4/0

Why has this thread got resurrected at least 3 times
Not for a good reason I suspect.

It's the weekend, people are interested..

My answer is not enough. I met DH and married relatively young.

Just him. I'm 35 and wonder a bit.
We are active and experiment a bit ourselves BUT...

I am 28 and reckon somewhere around 50 men, no women. Only 1 in last 5 years. Most were when I was 18/19.

My childhood sweetheart who I was with from 13 years - 23 years old.

6 years of singledom = 3 boyfriends and maybe 8 ONS (rough guess)

Have been with current partner 12 years

23 Men. No women.

Seems pretty bad to me!!! im 20 and have been with my partber for 19 months now and expecting a baby. Lost virginity when i was 16. So between 16 and 18 i slept with 23 different guys :/. All safe, mind you! little ashamed of my number. Could be much worse!

12/3

I'm 35 and was in a LTR for agesssss, the others (exc 1 of the females) were before and after him.
Oldest was 12 years my senior and youngest was 9 years my junior :)
No regrets!

35 ish (maybe can't really remember) men and 2 women

Some of those have been erm group activities lol

1/0

Met dh aged 18, still together aged 40.
No Regrets

10/0

I am 30 and have had a 7 year relationship where I was faithful throughout. Just a shame my ex-h didn't see fidelity as part of marriage. He certainly added a few to his score during our relationship.

5/0. Am 24 and in a LTR for 3 years.