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How many men / women have you slept with?

343 replies

ElizabethX · 01/08/2012 18:18

Assuming you can remember that is.

Today for the first time ever I counted and it is 14 / 0*.

I am 35. This is just under 1 a year since I became sexually active (started late...4th term at uni). I'm not counting youthful messing about, I mean full sex.

This doesn't seem so many to me and obv its going to depend when you became monogamous anyway. But, I have seen articles that suggest a much lower figure, eg 7 for men 4 for women.

Am I a bit of a slapper (which I would be fine with, I enjoyed it) or are all these people just lying? I think the latter, because judging by who I have spoken to 14 is much more typical than 4.

  • 14 men I think ** no women I am sure
OP posts:
ScooseIsLoose · 13/05/2013 18:08

6 men (including dh)
0 women
I met dh when I was 22 and have been with him 9 years or it would probably be higher Smile

ScooseIsLoose · 13/05/2013 18:09

Oh Ffs

badinage · 13/05/2013 18:10

I was married at 21 yrs old and had 1 affair during that time.

I never mess around when I am in a relationship.

Confused

What a lad huh?

Betcha the 'girls' are just gagging for you Billy.

Women on the other hand....

Branleuse · 13/05/2013 18:13

I think 15 men and 1 woman

Kione · 13/05/2013 18:33

24/0 (I might be forgetting someoneBlush )
Loving this thread because I thought it was too many! I am 34

Mondrian · 13/05/2013 18:45

30ish/- 2 x 1/2 (2 x 4way) ..... But that was pretty much all before getting married at 28 been technically a saint since then.

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 19:13

ZOMBIE THREAD BUMPED FOR DUBE REASONS

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 19:13

Why do most people not read the last few posts ? It would prevent your sex life getting used as wank fodder

Imgettingthere · 13/05/2013 21:37

4/0. To be honest wish it had been just DH. Met him and grew up but everyones perception/circumstances/ideals different which is what makes us unique.

CuChullain · 13/05/2013 22:01

0/34

38 years old, been with Mrs CuChullain 5 years

Portofino · 13/05/2013 22:05

Zombie thread alert some old pervert has rocked up - please don't feed it.

ElBombero · 13/05/2013 22:09

35 / 1

Grin Lots of fun!

hobbknob · 13/05/2013 22:12

6/0
I'm 30 and been with DP 10 years.

hobbknob · 13/05/2013 22:13

On no.....

OhLori · 13/05/2013 22:15

ZOMBIE THREAD!!! DO NOT FEED!!!

Ledkr · 13/05/2013 22:24

HELLO !!!!!!! Ffs

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 22:42

DANCES ACROSS THREAD WITH ZOMBIE THREAD T SHIRT ON

< throws self on floor and beats it weakly >

Ledkr · 13/05/2013 22:44

Wow af them there's some good moves you got there

AntoinetteCosway · 13/05/2013 22:45

1/0. Lost virginity at 19, married him at 24, now 29 with a DD. No Blush here!

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 22:46

< puffs on inhaler >

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 22:46

..... aaaaaaaanD GIVES UP

AntoinetteCosway · 13/05/2013 22:46

Oops, sorry!

AnyFucker · 13/05/2013 22:49

Antoinette, can you take over for me, I'm fucked

UnicornCentaur · 13/05/2013 23:06

8/2 and im 24 never had a ltr tho

not Blush at all I enjoyed 9 of them... then there was the virgin

LittlePeaPod · 13/05/2013 23:09

I am 37... 5..

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