His 'holidays' in bloody Thailand

[NotSoEdenRoc]

Name change.

I'm single. I've been involved in an on/off fairly casual thing with this guy for 3 years.He goes to the Far East about 4 times a year. Turns out that he goes to Bangkok and somewhere else in Thailand...I've only just found this out, he's never mentioned Thailand usually says he's going to Malaysia and/or Singapore but doesn't talk about his trip when he gets back home.

Can there be any innocent reason why a single man in his mid 40's goes to Bangkok 4 times a year ? On his own? And if it's all innocent (yea yea) why not just tell me the truth about where he goes?

I know I need to get checked for STI's. I am going to die of embarassment a woman of my age going in there, are these clinics full of 16 year olds?

But my main question here is, would anyone else feel like I do? I feel like I've lost all respect for him as a man. He's a horrible repulsive creature doing this. I feel dirty myself. I feel as if he must hate women.

Yay!

Couldn't have put it better myself :)

Doubly well said.

NotsoEdenRoc rocks.

And to the OP - well done for recognising what this man was doing and acting on it. You are so better off without him in your life. Hope you're ok - emotionally as well as health-wise - must have been awful for you.

And your thread has been momentous.

I know, Pan. I'm glad we are finally reclaiming the site from these wankers.

well, off to bed - long day tomorrow. But an apology would be appreciated, limited?
< without wishing to drawing away from AF's success.>

Pan, your post at 10:48 was a bit strange though - were you joking? AF has got 100% support here. No voices of dissent at all - highly unusual on MN.

Yes, DameAnyFucker- geeenius.

I don't think Dame is good enough.
AF used to be the Patron Saint on her hoverererer, which summed her up perfectly, I thought.
I'm thinking of creating a mobile shrine to her.
Ice cream van, touring the UK, but what jingle should we play?

Talc.....?

"About time that mumsnet was reclaimed by the Mumsnetters. The creeps like larry have been taking the piss for far too long."

I have always said that were MNHQ to send me a polite request to desist from posting, I would. If it is felt by them that my posts are unwelcome, I will happily desist forever. I (unlike some) do not spend my whole life here nor need this site.

If anyone wants me to stop posting, please show this post to MNHQ and ask them to e mail me to leave. If they agree, I will happily ago.

Come off it, Larry! You are comparing AF's fantasy knee-capping (which was a device to illustrate her strength of feeling, not an actual plan) with the real abuse of real women. Surely you can see which is worse here?

Or maybe you can't - in which case you really need help.

Do not feed the trolls.

Gabdhi, "Clearly unidentifiable prostitutes", refers to their names & locations and in no way implies they are inferior beings. However with a bit of work & illegal help from Mumsnet, Larry COULD be identified, I'm sure.

This is a forum, unpopular views should be expected.
Having said that, I recognise that my first postings on this thread on the lines of innocent until proved guilty, were shown to be optimistic & the bastard man was going there for cheap fucks. Sorry.

There is no place for your misogyny on here larry.