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His 'holidays' in bloody Thailand

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NotSoEdenRoc · 02/07/2012 09:37

Name change.

I'm single. I've been involved in an on/off fairly casual thing with this guy for 3 years.He goes to the Far East about 4 times a year. Turns out that he goes to Bangkok and somewhere else in Thailand...I've only just found this out, he's never mentioned Thailand usually says he's going to Malaysia and/or Singapore but doesn't talk about his trip when he gets back home.

Can there be any innocent reason why a single man in his mid 40's goes to Bangkok 4 times a year ? On his own? And if it's all innocent (yea yea) why not just tell me the truth about where he goes?

I know I need to get checked for STI's. I am going to die of embarassment a woman of my age going in there, are these clinics full of 16 year olds?

But my main question here is, would anyone else feel like I do? I feel like I've lost all respect for him as a man. He's a horrible repulsive creature doing this. I feel dirty myself. I feel as if he must hate women.

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babyheaves · 05/07/2012 21:45
Lifeissweet · 05/07/2012 21:51

Your post is still there, AF. I suppose that means it must be a factual description rather than a personal attack. Good on you.

ThePan · 05/07/2012 21:51

thanks Amazonian - and no I don't think larry is representative of most men. And also fwiw I spent today in company of a lge group of 18-25 'offenders' in an environment where women were the group leaders totally, and there wasn't one 'joke', challenge, smirk or anything. larry should have been there and learned.

NoLogo · 05/07/2012 22:20

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CogPsych · 05/07/2012 22:22

Is he into any sports?

I've dived and kayaked in Thailand and they have some of the best reefs and rivers for both those sports. I knew a guy who used to go and train muay thai kickboxing there too.

Thailand is a beautiful country, but to be honest you can see all of Bangkok in a couple of days so i don't know why someone would go there year after year.

As far as prostitutes go, they're just as common elsewhere in Asia. Thailand has a reputation but really it's not so bad.

NoLogo · 05/07/2012 22:24

Yeah , but Cog, you wouldn't go to Pattaya for diving would you? You'd go a little further afield to one of the islands no?

AnyFucker · 05/07/2012 22:44

Thanks for your unanimous support everyone, here and in < bulging > pm box

My rant was not in any way planned. It was as a result of drip, drip, drip of the toxicity and snideness that oozes from every post of this person.

Gimme an honest kneecapping any day, over that Wink

ThePan · 05/07/2012 22:48

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UnlikelyAmazonian · 05/07/2012 22:53

Cog... you write very saliently..

"I've dived and kayaked in Thailand and they have some of the best reefs and rivers for both those sports. I knew a guy who used to go and train muay thai kickboxing there too."

Thankyou for your contribution. I knew a guy once too. He was really nice and we went to argos.

Are you a barrister?

stretch · 05/07/2012 22:57

Another one here applauding AF.
I am not sure MNHQ will remove that post, the silence on MN after would be deafening!!

UnlikelyAmazonian · 05/07/2012 22:57

FryingPan, you said thankyou to me earlier. Can I just thankyou too, for saying something important:

I don't understand what that was and I missed what I did to earn your gratefulness.

But I am sure you think it was very worthwhile and relevant. I thank you for that.

So thankyou again for that.

I once sat on a hill and that was enough giddy heights for me.

Did you see what I did there?

GetOrfMoiiLand · 05/07/2012 23:00

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ThePan · 05/07/2012 23:03

Nope, UA - that flew gracefully over my head, tho at times I can be really literal and thick. (and the frying bit did as well!). So I didn't see what you did there, unfortunately. ??

UnlikelyAmazonian · 05/07/2012 23:06

whatever pan.

AF, I would add to your bulging pm box but you know I don't need to. Unashamed kisses to you.

TheCrackFox · 05/07/2012 23:09

I feel AnyFucker should change her to

DameAnyFucker.

Binfullofsiliconelimbsonthe45 · 05/07/2012 23:09

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GetOrfMoiiLand · 05/07/2012 23:10

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ThePan · 05/07/2012 23:13

ok UA. Confused

TheCrackFox · 05/07/2012 23:16

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Binfullofsiliconelimbsonthe45 · 05/07/2012 23:17

Oh and I defo vote for the name change and "Damely" upgrade too!

Huzzah!

LimitedAppeal · 05/07/2012 23:19

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runningforthebusinheels · 05/07/2012 23:21

Yes GetOrf - MN why do you tolerate these posters? I know guidelines are guidelines, and you welcome strong opinions etc but dammit. They're just here to inflame.

Some of these posts by Larry et al are just sickening - but because they're clever enough to stay just within guidelines they are allowed to stand. And there are a few F4J invaders around today - also keeping very much below radar. But I can see them.

Hopefully TheChairman is next

carernotasaint · 05/07/2012 23:24

Blimey i havent looked at this thread for a while and look whats happened.
Well done Any Fucker and others for taking a stand. I didnt know those vile websites existed until this week.
I would like to extend my support to the OP and Unlikely and im sorry for what youve had to go through with those fuckers.
The world needs more people like AF and the others on this thread who stand up for what they believe in.

carernotasaint · 05/07/2012 23:24

Blimey i havent looked at this thread for a while and look whats happened.
Well done Any Fucker and others for taking a stand. I didnt know those vile websites existed until this week.
I would like to extend my support to the OP and Unlikely and im sorry for what youve had to go through with those fuckers.
The world needs more people like AF and the others on this thread who stand up for what they believe in.