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His 'holidays' in bloody Thailand

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NotSoEdenRoc · 02/07/2012 09:37

Name change.

I'm single. I've been involved in an on/off fairly casual thing with this guy for 3 years.He goes to the Far East about 4 times a year. Turns out that he goes to Bangkok and somewhere else in Thailand...I've only just found this out, he's never mentioned Thailand usually says he's going to Malaysia and/or Singapore but doesn't talk about his trip when he gets back home.

Can there be any innocent reason why a single man in his mid 40's goes to Bangkok 4 times a year ? On his own? And if it's all innocent (yea yea) why not just tell me the truth about where he goes?

I know I need to get checked for STI's. I am going to die of embarassment a woman of my age going in there, are these clinics full of 16 year olds?

But my main question here is, would anyone else feel like I do? I feel like I've lost all respect for him as a man. He's a horrible repulsive creature doing this. I feel dirty myself. I feel as if he must hate women.

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MildewMayhew · 05/07/2012 20:43

This is true, SGM... I think MNHQ are waiting for something along the lines of "I hate all women" to come out of his keyboard.

StewieGriffinsMom · 05/07/2012 20:47

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UnlikelyAmazonian · 05/07/2012 20:53

I think Larry should be allowed to remain on here. He is a useful barometer.

mathanxiety · 05/07/2012 21:00

'I see nothing wrong with using women from another part of the world for sex' surely translates to 'I hate all women'?

Or does it translate to 'women are a different species from us men, so we can do whatever we want to them as long as it's legal and we pay the going rate'?

Whatever it may mean, technically speaking, the logic and the underlying sentiment all come from the same basic empathy-less foundation.

LemarchandsBox · 05/07/2012 21:00

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runningforthebusinheels · 05/07/2012 21:01

Just pops on to APPLAUD AnyFucker and Math

Thanks
MildewMayhew · 05/07/2012 21:01

I know, I think he just needs to put it in black and white...

Don't say that, Amazonian... Compared to Larry, all of my exs have at least one redeeming feature... Hmm

StewieGriffinsMom · 05/07/2012 21:03

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runningforthebusinheels · 05/07/2012 21:07

Do you know what - I really hope, just this once, Af's posts are allowed to stand. Because they are right.

ThePan · 05/07/2012 21:10

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susiedaisy · 05/07/2012 21:12

Larrys posts could be compared to the shit at the bottom of the barrel, if you find yourself agreeing with him (god forbid) you know you have really hit rock bottom!!

LeB0F · 05/07/2012 21:14

MNHQ, fantastic sensible use of your discretion, THANK YOU.

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MmeLindor. · 05/07/2012 21:32

Adding support for AF.

Don't you DARE delete that post, MNHQ.

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InfiniteFairylights · 05/07/2012 21:41

Lining up to add support for AF and all the straight talkers on here. I see Larry's name and immediately prepare myself for an onslaught of mysogyny. Angry

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