Time wasters need not apply, Soul Soothers come hither Dating Chat Part 11

[hatesponge]

Ta-da! Think this is the first one I've started.

I am still feeling somewhat feisty. Told my team off at work for being too noisy and was generally stroppy. Might have to go and start a row in AIBU or something!

So, dating, as you were etc

Not forgetting of course that I have a second date at the weekend!

I've got to go now, real life is calling BUT, I have told Hey66 I will chat later. He is thrilled

Til laters ladies!

at the profile 1888Jay1888. Bleugh!!

oh dear god.

I have been mailed on POF by someone I went to school with.

He hasn't aged well though is still unmistakeable.

Luckily he appears not to have recognised me.

Have put myself on Oasis. Not impressed so far. Roll on the singles evening tomorrow!!

Haven't really looked properly at Oasis, have signed up but that's all atm.

Well Mr Friday Night text me this morning asking me "nursey" questions about his chicken pox. If he's looking for a sympathetic type, he's REALLY got the wrong person!

What do you do if you go on to online dating and see someone you know??

It's one of the things that puts me off!

sponge He looks a bit scary (in an angry way) to me

ChickenSkin - totally agree about the "nursey" sympathetic thing. I went on two dates with someone recently and we exchanged a few e-mails in between, but in almost every e-mail he talked about something that was wrong with him - colds, sprained ankles, etc. Maybe I'm a horrible unsympathetic person, but it really put me off him. It just made him sound so moany and negative.

Am I the only person who loves the sexting thing? Most people on here think it's a bit icky. I know it is free wank stimulus; for me as well as for him! I spent all last week in a heightened state of excitement! Great fun. Nothing is coming of it but I still had a good time. The only drawback for me is that it felt very intimate so I got a bit too close. I might try it with someone if ever I find a proper relationship. Would certainly work for long-distance love affairs.

Back off holiday and had two men remember when I was back and mailed me to ask if I had a good holiday and still wanted to meet up. so have them both arrannged for next weekend when dc at exdp's.
was a little gutted that one I was also chatting to has deleted his profile while I was away. I do have his mobile number as we were texting before I went away.. wondering wether to text him to say im back or leave that one alone if he's deleted his account??
I have hidden my profile as also seem to be attracting some right weirdos!!

Toptramp, mind boggles at how close you got . Each to their own but you are starting off with the lowest common denominator so I wouldn't be expecting anything to come of it. Nothing wrong with you enjoying it at all..

Sorry if this is too nosy but are pictures involved ?

top tramp; I liked the sexting bit with the right person. but had to know them well. not with someone I didn't know it would put me off if they started it straight away. but person who I was with it was a huge turn on esspess as he lived so far away from me :-)

sexting kinda leaves me cold, i want full body contact or nothing
i dont need help with diy :)

"Recently completed my PhD which was a massive financial/ time commitment. Looking for an open-minded girl to wear a strap-on and use it on me! Strap-on is provided ;o)"

Anyone???

This was part of his profile, not a message to me, although he did send me a request to check out his profile, on Oasisdating.

loves. A friend of mine tried webcam sex twice once, she highly recommended it purely as a social experiment.

I kind of started it but mabe I should of waited. Oh well. Onwards and upwards!

Oh my gosh! Different! thekissingmachine

Well, you did mention lesbianism before

Well guys, Mr Friday Night has just hammered in the final nail of his coffin with me. Remember he cancelled our date because he's ill. He's just text me to say he's going to stay at his mum's house until he's feeling better [gag]

Bollocks to that. Mummy's boys are a definite no with me.

Yes, have one of you set me up?

Chickens that's definitely a NEXT....!!

Think it must be Fugly Friday on POF tonight

I've had three messages from one person on OKcupid in the past few days. You'd think he'd have got the message by now.

I've come to the conclusion that these dating websites were invented and set up by pharmacuetical companies. I have a headache

adams hmm, I dunno, I've had a fair few offers for 'webcam sex' but I struggle to even think of it as sex..more like masturbating to real time porn.

If there's no kissing I aint interested
infact I might just be happy with a snogging only arrangement

I leove being kissed, been talking to my just friends and tbh I so would kiss and more him. But don't tell him that. Got a message today from mr last Monday night, moving in day, but not bothering. NEXT, In fact original. Sorry, though I am expecting a call from someone else tonight.

Hello everyone, hope its ok to join.
Ive been seperated from STBXH for over a year and finally feel strong enough to get out there again, whatever that means. So drank wine (lots) and put myself of POF dont think my profile is wonderful as I havent got a bloody clue what to write!! Although I have had some emails and chatted a bit.

God its hard work! Does it get fun soon?

Ive had the day off work today and indulged in some rather rude chatting to a gorgeous bloke off POF. Hes a bit younger than me but seems so much more experienced. He could be bullshitting but by his pics I think not. At least I know where I stand with someone like this. Upfront and no hidden agendas. The ones I hate are the ones that say they want a relationship - you go out 5 or 6 times and then poof after sex. I still chat to other potential proper 'relationship' men. Im not a complete numpty