sponge - have to say, i am loving your new fiesty attitude, i want to high five you :) be like it more often, it really suits you :) :)
really pleased you have set in your head what your happy to accept with mr barbour, sex is clearly on the cards, so fine and you know that if he doesnt call you feel ok with that, but that if he wants a 3rd date he needs to step up his game. THIS - see, this is why we are good at dating, we are all now very very good at working out what we want, and the parameters for that.. not like some other threads you read where people go ' oh give him a chance, you are mean.. its things like that that make women think their needs arent important, and how shitty relationships start, so pleased for you :)
hi to all the new girls :)
chicken - i prefer day time dates, because if you dont like them ( which is more likely than liking them) you can get out quicker. You also dont have to go to any hastle getting dressed up and its cheaper. Nighttime dates are better for a second date... the only exception, for me, anyway, is if i can tell we will have a fab night, and its a go out, get trashed, probably have sex, wake up with a kebab next to your bed and your clothes all over the place night.
jammas - yeah, we all feel like that, just jump back in, you arent going to find anyone sitting in on your own :)
misskeith - two dates!!! woohoo. and yes, kissing is fine, why wouldnt it be ;) provided of course than you want to kiss them... the important thing with kissing/ shagging/ whatever is to do it if you want to... but only if you are ok with it if they dont call you after. if you are going to regret it, or feel bad, dont do it. If you want to, at that momment in time, go for it..
adams - that sounds like a really good plan :) i like that plan.
mrsc - wow, a true fwb situation, so hard to come by :) pleased its working out.
my 5 dates have dwindled over night. typically. i shall number them, no point giving them names...
1 - musician, this afternoon, 41 years old. still on.
2 - this evenings date, cancelled when he asked for ' sex pics' knobber.
3 - 35year old, seems nice, him of the squares reply, lots of banter, should be fun, turns out he used to live in my house!! ( he doesnt know this )
4 - hipster 36 year old. asked me out to the dirty pub in which i had a jagermeister filled night. I was going to go, but then he mentioned hes out drinking most nights of the week, and hes part of the hipster in crowd in my town. While i know i would have a fab night, and hes totally my type looks wise, i dont want to date him... practially it wouldnt work ( 3 cheers for knowing what you want) so i shall have to cancel
5 - 34 year old BLONDE man, who has actually CALLED me on the telephone and we are doing ' something' next weekend.
have now hidden my profile because im talking to a few others as well, and have pretty much run out for free time for the next month.
i did eventually reply to the buddist, who replied back quite quickly. Excitingly, and if you cant note the scarasm there.... we are talking about crabs. actual crabs, you know, with pincers. Im not going to reply for a few days... Highly strange post date behaviour, but whatever, he had his chance, ive moved on.