Plenty of Fish, yes, but where are the men? Dating chat thread #4

[lubeybooby]

A new one (again)

Dating, internet dating, all kinds of dating.... chat about it here.

Off you go! :o

BoR has just started texting me saying he can't wait to see me, fancies the pants off me, wishes he could have another snog and very cute things like that. It's making me grin, bless him. I do love it when they are not hard work!

Way to go Lubey and snape

back home safe now. :)

questions, questions!!

umm, atrocious skin as in he must have had acne in his teens and is a bit scarred. this is 'rugged' right? this makes him manly His hair was blonde and floppy. think Matt smith, but blonde.

God, yes I'd want to see him again, the snag (always one!) is that he lives on the south coast, but his mum is in London and he visits frequently and I'm happy with long distance relationships to be honest (not that anyone has suggested this is a relationship or has the potential to be one...) because then he isn't under my feet. I'm the opposite of the popping in for a shag coffee that Snail likes. :)

charlottes how could you be so cruel to mister 8"?? hope mr 22ft is lovely :) have a lovely evening!

Lubey - BoR sounds lovely! I want those texts from the doctor! (well aware I may never hear from him again, can never tell about these things...)

(and so it starts!) (joke, not really....I'm off to rehearsals tonight, plenty to do. am not just looking at phone. oh no.)

I'm really pleased it went well snape and that he is a definite maybe in the relationship department. Fingers crossed that your phone starts going any time soon!!

I'm not averse to something a bit longer distance either. BoR is in the same town though just the other end of it. If he were any closer I'd feel a bit claustraphobic, I'm used to the ones I meet being about half an hour away

Snape :o at glaring at your phone.

The way I'm feeling right now I wouldn't care if he lived next door as long as he was fit to shag available. I have to get this party started!!!

Time, why not register on BeNaughty and purposefully search for a big manly delicious FWB have a cup of tea calm down and forget all lustful thoughts of window cleaners

i'm googling him. Thats normal behaviour, right? oh! found him on facebook!

Completely normal snape, in fact you're slacking

I couldn't do that I'm only just learning how to be naughty not brave enough for that YET! I've only just had a cup, I will be up all night lusting after window cleaners

Normal, Snape, has to be done.

lubey Have you done 'BeNaughty? Just as a matter of interest.

Yeah, you are slacking, we should have had his name by now so that we can google/find him on facebook too! You gotta share you know!

Yep Time sure have. When I wanted Mr RightNOW and not Mr Right it's no different to POF really just with more sex.

I did it a few times...I would still have a date, go for a drink, public place blah blah but have a 95% chance of using the clean sheets rather than 0% due to it being a first date.

You don't have to meet JUST for sex. I never did, always some form of date too even with FWB and potential FWB. Dating and shagging but no commitment. Great fun!

So very much like POF then

Actually thinking about it the best times I've had have been from a seperate POF account but set up for 'intimate encounter'

I got something ridiculous like 65 messages in an hour and some were really very gorgeous. Took my pick and met up. Simples.

Did you put up a pic? I One would need to put up a different pic wouldn't I one? And do you just go about it like a 'normal' date except the guys are not ones looking for 'magic' and a 'fairytale ending' also known as a lifetime of drudgery marriage, which seems to be what I attract the most of

Time, I have absolutely no intention of sharing! :) I might casually throw into the conversation that we were talking about going to a fan wankconvention where people dress up as film characters and he suggested going as lucius Malfoy.. not only a DW geek but a harry potter fan, who thinks a great first date is a sandwich & a trip to forbidden planet. sigh!

Yeah I just used a different pic.

The bloke I met when I did this on POF was lovely - he sent me a mesage, he had no pic but I got him to email me one to the email set up just for 'fun' encounters, we chatted on msn and he sent me a few more, he could spell and use grammar and everything :o we went for a curry and a drink then back to mine and were at it all night. Dan was his name. A lovely bit of posh :o

I made it clear in my profile that I wanted to find a regular FWB to go out with and then have 'fun' with but that I didn't want a relationship.

You get SERIOUS twats trying to send you cock pics all the time, loads of dirty messages and the usual text speak and loads of married ones, but also very gorgeous very single ones who want the same thing.

Oh and I ended up seeing Dan about 6 times over a couple of months with the same arrangement before he moved away to look after his poorly dad. He was lush though and worth sifting the dross on POF for.

Well how about a swap then? This is my latest catch on POF well ok maybe

Fair swap me thinks!

Time lmfao at his profile, that is genius :o

Mmm, that does sound the kind of thing I'm looking for, the more I think about it. The 'fairytale ending' brings me out in a rash, make me shudder! I don't want someone living in my pocket or in my house, I want someone who isn't available all the time, I just want a play thing

I'm doing a swapsie with snape lubey

I do my own windows.