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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Joins The Foreign Legion In Their Quest For Sobriety.

999 replies

Mouseface · 03/10/2011 10:24

Hello, I'm Mouse Smile and I have a very abusive relationship with alcohol.

I can't just have one glass of anything, I have to drink until I pass out or run out. Whichever comes first.

This Bus is a place of solace and safety, where drinkers, non-drinkers and those who aren't quite sure can come and post or just sit and 'be'.

No-one will judge you, no-one will think any the less of you because we all have the same thing in common.

Alcohol.

And for those who want to read the journey's so far and the original thread by JWN, the lady who very bravely started these journeys for us, HERE they are. Smile

(PS - the title is just for you notevenamousie)

OP posts:
dementedma · 11/10/2011 20:14

checking in. fuckingwanker DH, asleep on sofa after leaving me to do all the decorating in DDs room on my own today. poor poppet must tbe exhausted.
I swear one day i will kill him. it is my only option.
venus hows things?
mouse thinking of you
Hi to everyone else.

MelodyPond · 11/10/2011 20:18

Well done Cidre, that's wonderful! Well done to all of you, I'm looking forward to being there too.

I am sober Grin really pleased. Exhausted though so tomorrow will be a different challenge I can imagine, but for today I'm good.

Crap day too, Dd was a nightmare and I had to leave work early as she was refusing to go home and wouldn't answer her phone. Awful, I was so worried, she was fine though and git a big telling off when I got home. Could have so easily given it, but didn't

Good you're all ok and doing well, off to watch endless tv and enjoy knowing I'm not going to be hungover tomorrow ...

Mmm cake...

Have a great evening fabulous ladies!

MelodyPond · 11/10/2011 20:20

Got a telling off

Given in even...

Told you I was tired!

ScareyFairenuff · 11/10/2011 20:26

That's brill Melody. Feels good doesn't it. Smile

Venus bless you for letting us know how you're doing when you've so much else to think of right now.

Spooky you will be in good company on this bus (the best actually). Do you want to join me in a day without drinking tomorrow. Just one day?

Isindie just wondering how you're getting on too. There's loads of cake and chocolate and biscuits on the bus if you fancy some. Shall I leave a trail of crumbs and hope that you turn up?

Can't see the moon for the clouds but it must be nearly full now-ow-ooowww!

MelodyPond · 11/10/2011 20:31

Sorry x post Venus. I hope it all goes well xx

MelodyPond · 11/10/2011 20:32

It does feel good Scarey, thank you Smile

Mwahahahahahahahouseface · 11/10/2011 20:36

Venus - sending you love and strength xxxx

ModreB · 11/10/2011 20:40

venus thinking of you.

Feeling a bit down tonight, not sure why. Struggling with wanting to go to the off licence. But am determined that I am not going out for wine. I am not drinking tonight.

I will have a hot chocolate with toast and jam instead.

Mwahahahahahahahouseface · 11/10/2011 20:53

Hot chocolate sure cures my cravings. I had three the other night! Grin

Will have to do the same tonight I feel.

Keep hold of your sobriety Modre, let's fight it together tonight Smile

Mwahahahahahahahouseface · 11/10/2011 20:58

Right, hot chocolate, The Body Farm and bed.

Danger averted by Mr Cadbury's thank Jeff.

Venus - I really, really, really hope you are okay, and DD is too. I can only imagine how serious this is if they are operating at this time of the day. Sad

I know how you feel, they never stop being your child, even when they are all grown up.

Be gentle with yourself and please, eat.

You'll be in my thoughts. Sending love xxxx

thinice · 11/10/2011 20:58

Mouse Sorry Confused I often get Wed / Thurs muddled up. Hold on to strong thoughts / wishes for whenever you need them. I really did think it was Thursday tomorrow Blush x

thinice · 11/10/2011 21:07

venus I don't really know what to say. Sounds like a mothers worst powerless nightmare. When you get through this I expect you will be even stronger. xxx

ScareyFairenuff · 11/10/2011 21:23

Modre you will be so pleased with yourself tomorrow. Stick to the hot chocolate. I know it's hard my lovely, but just take it minute by minute if you need to. Hope you're ok. This is a great place to come when the cravings hit. You will rarely be alone x

Dammit, now I really fancy hot chocolate. With a flake in. Will try a peppermint tea instead for now.

Mouse Day 20! You can do it lovely lady x

BafangaTheSombre · 11/10/2011 21:30

Just checking in
Still here still sober.

venus in my thoughts, hope everything goes ok

Keep going Babes, we can do anything at all for one day!!

Bafana

Silver66 · 11/10/2011 21:52

venus ((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))) xxxxx

MsGee · 11/10/2011 22:08

venus thinking of you and DD (((( )))) xxxx

ModreB · 11/10/2011 22:14

Going to bed in a minute.

This will be the end of the 8th day. I have not drunk today. If I can do it today for one day, I can do it any day that I choose to.

legalalien · 11/10/2011 22:37

Just popping in to say Venus I am thinking if you and wishing you well.

Have been lurking rather than posting lately as my head is a bit all over the place (blimmin' depression - am sticking to reduced drinking rules, exercising regularly, eating healthily and it STILL comes calling). Glad to see that so many of you are doing well - and that there are plenty of newbies!

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helpmenow · 12/10/2011 07:20

Thinking of mouse, modre andvenus* especially today.

We can do anything just for one day.

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ModreB · 12/10/2011 07:28

Good morning. Getting ready for work so cant stop and chat. I went to bed sober last night, and woke up sober as well. I do feel so much better but I took on a lot more fluids last night than I have been used to for the lastweek, so that might be the difference.

Busy day again today, so hopefully will wear myself out.

I also have a club night tonight, connected with my hobby that has no possibility of exposing me to drink.

So, today, I am not going to have a drink.

notevenamousie · 12/10/2011 07:28

sneeze cough sniffle splutter
Morning all, couldn't sleep well as couldn't really breathe, or swallow.
Still beats a hangover any day!!
DD has slept thru for the second time in a week - I am a fan of school :)
Good luck to all today, and here's to happy sobriety.

MsGee · 12/10/2011 07:33

Morning. No boing. Woken up by DD at 5am. Ugh.