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A quick peck on the lips from a male friend, what does it mean?

302 replies

waitingfornaru · 11/08/2011 16:50

I have been chatting to a man virtually every night on facebook for a couple of years. He's a family friend, we occasionally cross paths. Our conversations on there are mildly flirty every so often but neither of us like to progress into anything uncouth online.

Every night otherwise, near enough, talk about anything and everything. We don't use the Chat function or send private messages to eachother (Ok, about 2 each in two years), my reason mainly because he's already told me things like everytime he logs on, particular women always instantly send him messages, so I don't want to be like that. I also agree with him that there's nothing we can't say in 'public' on facebook, so no need for private messaging.

At a family wedding, we had our first real opportunity to sit and talk to eachother for several hours, having previously only been in the company of other family members or similar, here we were pretty much together most of the night, having both drunk, but him only a couple of pints, I gave him the usual hug goodbye and a kiss on the cheek, but he gave me a quick peck on the lips. It wasn't a misjudged aim.

What does that peck mean?

Everyone says that he likes me, but if this is alluded to in facebook conversations we both deliberately ignore it and try to change the subject!

We are both single by the way and in early 40s, both out of very long-term relationships exactly two years ago, both of us.

OP posts:
FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 17:59

Don't cry coffee. It's not that bad.

Nagoo · 23/08/2011 18:01
MavisGrind · 23/08/2011 18:04

I have had to delurk from this thread just to say FFS.

I await the update.

coffeeinbed · 23/08/2011 18:04

NO, it's like Jane Austin on steroids.

geraldinetheluckygoat · 23/08/2011 18:05

One of us would have had to of turned up at the cinema to seduce the nephew had you not got rid of him first. oh my god, OP, it is so obvious this man likes you. People dont exchange binary code with just anyone, you know Grin Wink

GOOD LUCK TONIGHT.

coffeeinbed · 23/08/2011 18:06

I do wonder what they went to see...

AnyFucker · 23/08/2011 18:07

CIB, ask yourself this...

"what would Elizabeth Bennett say?"

MrsSchadenfreude · 23/08/2011 18:08

Really, Schmarn? Confused

I have a male friend and we email constantly and speak most days too. And have for the past 10 years. He's not gay.

ConfusedConfusedConfused

FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 18:09

Arf at geraldine I'm a bit worried about the binary code thing. that's not normal is it? Confused No wonder they are having trouble getting it on.

FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 18:12

Do you suppose she is wearing a tightly strung bodice? Might she faint into his arms? Or get a fit of the vapours? Or storm off alone into the rain and be forced to take to her bed with a deadly fever brought about by getting her pantaloons soaked through? De de Deeeeeeehhh....what a cliffhanger.

AnyFucker · 23/08/2011 18:13

oh dear, OP is going to be most displeased with us upon her return

FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 18:14

Who, us? Why, we have been nothing but supportive.

FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 18:15

In my head I keep speaking like Imelda Staunton now. And adjusting my pinny and bonnet. Hmm

GertieWooster · 23/08/2011 18:20

"when that longed for and half-remembered full body hug of the rock solid wall of a man is so unfamiliar to me now"

Good luck OP.

Could this be a hitherto unpublished Jane Austen work entitled "Dithering and Dilly-dallying".

coffeeinbed · 23/08/2011 18:26

I'm dying to see the binary code.
Now I'm off to get a drink, I believe the fates send it my way.
And AF, I'm convinced even Elizabeth Bennet would have shagged him by now.
She would recognise a good cosmic vibration.

ReadyToDrink · 23/08/2011 18:36

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Wink
LadyGrace · 23/08/2011 18:37

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

DancesWithWolefCubs · 23/08/2011 19:00

Had to run away to parents, XH turned up on a visit to the girls, refused to leave (GF has chucked him out, as I found out afterwards). He then got verbally abusive etc, etc and I had to leave. Went to see the girls yesterday, he got physically abusive, neighbour called police and he was removed.

In a nutshell.

So fucking happy!

And can't wait for OP's update Grin

catsrus · 23/08/2011 19:10

lol readytodrink me too!

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ReadyToDrink · 23/08/2011 19:15

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FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 19:20

How do you do that? Confused

OTheHugeRaveningWolef · 23/08/2011 19:21

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FellatioNelson · 23/08/2011 19:22

Ah. That explains it.

coffeeinbed · 23/08/2011 19:27

Pours readytodrink some Baileys wine.
This is so romantic.
I think I feel quite faint. Pass the smelling salts more wine.

ReadyToDrink · 23/08/2011 19:34

Just google 'binary translator' :)