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How do you feel about prostitution?

1002 replies

BillieH · 10/11/2010 13:01

Hello everyone, I have name changed for this(no sinister reason) but i do post on here from time to time.

Anyway, I would love to know what your thoughts are on prostitution. I don't mean political views and I dont really want to get into a discussion on whether girls are trafficked, pimped, druggies. Just what you think as a whole.

I am talking about girls who willing become escorts or work in massage parlours under the guise of 'masseuses' when really they provide extras.

What do you think of men who see them? Are that losers, sad and lonely, 'sex addicts'or what? Would you think your dp/dh was cheating if he saw a prostitute.

I ask just out of curiosity, I do not think my dp has ever visited a prostitute! Also, apparently 1 in 10 men see prostitutes. Do you agree with this. If this is true what hope do we all have eh?

My take is that i belive some girls use their looks to earn money an 'easy' way. By easy, I mean that they do not have to train for yrs to get a decent paid job, or they do not have to work 9 to 5 in an office when they can earn a wks wages in a day.

I have asked my own dp and he beleives that there is something missing from a relationship if a man sees a prostitute.Obviously its different with a single man. He also thinks that some men have issues sexually with their wives/partners and are inhibited. Therefore, that is why they pay for sex acts that they can't ask for at home. These are exactly my thoughts.Anyone agree or disagree?

I'd like your thoughts or experiences!

OP posts:
Malificence · 12/11/2010 15:02

Sadly Posie, if we posted the name of every murdered prostitute ( let alone every coerced and abused one), the list of names would surely go way over the 1000 post limit. Sad

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:04

Oh do piss off. I'll tell the charity that I won't be baking anymore cakes because a bloke from punternet thinks it is not the solution. Well when they've been beaten by their pimp or punter and they go to the hostile for comfort and company a piece of cake goes a long way. I'm not abusive (funny you using that word) toward the vulnerable prostitute just the ridiculous who insist that it's their choice...

Malificence · 12/11/2010 15:05

The only hatred I see is from the prostitution fans. They can't think much of themselves, their children, their punters or women in general.
How simple life must be with no social conscience.

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:05

Apparently not, because the thing prostitutes most fear are middle class women....are there condoms for that?

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:05

Apparently not, because the thing prostitutes most fear are middle class women....are there condoms for that?

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:06

Posie why dont you just fuck off!( doubt that veyr much as you seem to be addicted to mumsnet)
why not go the the saafe site where you will firsy hand regonition and safety for prostitutes
please feel free to abuse me in pm I couldnt give a flying fuck ...LOL

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:07

Sorry is that English?

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:08

you are about as fearful as a kitten ..stupid cow !

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:12

At least one in ten women in prostitution in the country are victims of human trafficking. It also found that at least 15% of migrant women in prostitution are forced or coerced into the trade and up to 40% of them may be exploited just shy of slavery. In addition to those women who are trafficked, researchers found 9600 other women they deemed "vulnerable," meaning they showed some signs of trafficking and faced cultural or financial factors preventing them from exiting prostitution.

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:14

Given up msmont?

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:17

Nope.. I have a life and do other things rather that keep my finger on that good old refesh button waiting for the nasty whore to reply
babe X

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:19

I am writing an article on Feminist parenting, the old prostitute thing is of interest to me, I wonder how it went so wrong when the likes of you are selling your body.

Care to respond to the murdered, raped and trafficked points or is that something you ignore?

isthisanEA · 12/11/2010 15:21

Elizabeth,
I am a decent woman.
I don't abhor prostitutes

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:22

No I dont talk to people who write articles only if I get paid
time is money after all...
besides I think it would be rather one sided ..on your side of course

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:24

isthisanEA New member?

The article is for a parenting group's newsletter about parenting....you're the last person I would consider including, I was illustrating why I am at the PC.

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:25

Still avoiding the truth though....thought so.

alocallady · 12/11/2010 15:26

i have changed my name as i wished to comment on the list of names of the murdered women - i live in that very are it is very specific so -

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:28

I really couldnt care less why you are at your pc
besides you asked me to comment I told you why I wouldnt comment
you are rather strange and deranged posie
i suggest a nice cup of tea after all its what boy george would reccomend :o)

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:32

Still avoiding, how convenient.
You are a prostitute....see to insult you I don't even need to make stuff up.

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:32

I am fine posie dont you worry about me
I am after all a middle class woman myself who also has a 'decent job' a nice detatched home in the suburbs a nice car, (personalised number plate as well..ohh) 2.4 children ..a dog and I go on holiday twice a year
I am so sorry if I have deluded you , I am sure you must have thought I live in a shithole claming benifits no partner and i only wash my hair once a well
shame you have to try to belittle me via the internet,
its not working
Babe X

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:33

and you are a twat posie
bless ya !

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:34

Personalised number plate...wow you must be rough middle class and two holidays...gosh I'm so impressed. I can only get away for eight weeks a year, perhaps I should sell myself too.

I don't need to belittle you, you're doing that all by yourself.

msmont · 12/11/2010 15:35

I can just imagine you sitting at your pc (very old school no laptop yet !) getting more and more wound up..ohh you are making my day posie
you must stop soon otherwise your blood pressure will rocket

PosieComeHereMyPreciousParker · 12/11/2010 15:35

Still avoiding.

alocallady · 12/11/2010 15:36

it worked so i will continue - one of those girls had her 'pitch' right outside my house. i often spoke to her, i have never met such an unhappy desperate soul before, she was covered in sores, smelt dreadful, was stick thin and was always leaving piles of vomit on the pavement, she bore no resemblance to the 'offical' photo which was released after she went missing, something that she had in common with all those girls Sad because she used my drive i had a few run-ins with her pimp, a vile creature who told me he would burn my house down with me in it, i also had a few run-ins with several kerb crawlers, nasty vile little men who turned our street into a very unpleasant place to be once night fell - im a nice middle class lady, i dont condemn thee women, dear god, i wouldnt wish that life on my worst enemy!

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