No ejaculations and runs off in the morning

[Thomcat]

That's the crux of the problem.

My bestest, oldest, dearest friend has started seeing a guy, 38 yrs old, and has so far enjoyed about a month of his company.

However there seems to be a few problems.

1. When he stays over, which is alot, every weekend so far and during the week, he wakes up & opens his eyes and within 15 minutes he's out of the door saying he'll be back in an hur or so, and he is, but why the running off.

2. They have had sex a fair amount. Possibly not quite as much as they could/should be having in the first heady days of a relationship, but an ok amount. He gets an erection but so far, in over a month, he hasn't come. She has, that's all fine, but he hasn't.

We know he likes a beer, probably a bit too much.
QUESTION: If he gets an erection but doesn't ejaculate is that a drink related problem, or not?
QUESTION: What else could be causing the lack of ejaculation?
FACT : He gets an erection but it's not like he's just such a stud he can go for hours and not come. I think, from what I know, he gets one but it doesn't last for that long.

I'm not sure what else to tell you, so ask away and I'll do my best to answer / find out.

Any ideas about this ejaculation thing and also any ideas about what she should do about his running off every morning for an hour? Is that related to the sex thing do you think, is he leaving before she gets a chance to get saucy with him?

Off to make Lottie lunch, be back to see if any of you wise women have any clues.

TC x

ok NN perhaps my wording was rather strong sorry

I am just hoping it isn't that he has to be home to ring his girlfriend or wife or to be home so she can ring him

If she is working away atm

RT KM TC said she knows it not another woman cuz shes known him for ages, i think it may be the feeding animals or poo thing, i still havent seen if he comes back with fresh clothes, maybe he just goes home for a shower n to get fresh, after all they are in the early stages of the relationship, perhaps he has BO issues........

OK thanks that is deffo brill

I had wondered about the showering change of clothes but thought TC or G would have mentioned that

I wasn't going to post again to say we are still waiting here

DH has just come in to sak if there is any news

They must be up by now surely

Or perhaps he has stayed there and hasn't left

what a gross thread, maybe he is scared of getting her pregnant poor sod

still no news on the coming....or the going??

My dp suggested that he has to go and feed the young girl he has tied up in the dungeon of his house, but just ignore him gooneress

really sobernow? i will have to to inform my husband

Oh bum! I've worked my way all the way through this and there's still no answer.

Something must have happened by now

God....I can't beleive there isn't an answer yet.
This has been going on for years!

Perhaps it will be in the next Mumsnet book

Who is going to txt poor old countessdracula in greece then? WHEN we have an answer....!

I hope someone has her number

otherwise she will have to find internet cafe or wait 'til next week which we might be doing anyway

but at least we will know the answer isn't posted yet she won't

She'll be back before we get an answer!

i have her number somowhere

Maybe Gooner has asked. He's said "I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you".

Then he's told her.....

So we will never know!!!!

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

pmsl

omg there is still no answer?