whats the kinkiest thing you do in bed...?

[grapesandmoregrapes]

Just wondering if everyones sex life has toned downa bit since having children, or do you still do naughty things in bed?

I always feel like since I have children I have to be more demure and can't really be adventurous any more, but where's the fun in that??

Was that to me, Sassy?
I was just talking about the general filth in my house.....
er, of the dirt variety I mean.....
muck.....
the Persil 'dirt is good' kind.

Am I just digging a deeper hole here?

Was a club. Clerkenwell. Don't know what it is now.

Am now going to stop dreaming up ridiculous domestic appliances & get on with chopping veg

Stay away from the chillis

I actually think the OP makes a good point about how some women find it hard to reconcile their sex goddess side with their new status as a mother.

I have a bit of this myself, before kids dh and I had sex in restaurant toilets/took pictures/made videos/I gave him head in the back of a car etc

But now the dcs are here it is straightforward at best, and much less frequent! I think honestly, the only way I could have really dirty sex again would be with someone who didn't identify me as a wife/mother of their kids.

I know that's kind of sad but it's how I feel. Not sure what I can do about it though.

try it again jaceybee

make time to go and do something 'dirty'

seriously

I know what you are sayong and I remember feeling a bit like that after each of our babaies but you can get it back

you have to remember that you CAN be that person aswell as a mother and your dh doesn not now see youas a mother all the time

Very very good advice. I shall ensure that small animals are kept well away from any gaping orifices.

Good plan.

Jaceybee - I get where you are coming from, same here.

I'm supposed to see the missus as a mother?

Goodness me! I have obviously led a very sheltered life! Have been doing a little research though - think I need to spice things up a bit...

have sex (in answer to the thread title)

although it'll probably be the sofa on Thursday night...........

Erm, this certainly gives you an education, im with you buttonmoon78, can I just ask you actually put this in the freezer next to your frozen pea's and the kids fish fingers ewww. Not for the faint hearted.