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Anybody pregnant after miscarriage before 1st AF??

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tm1978 · 02/07/2008 14:10

Hi All

Well I'm 7 + 2. Only had my ERPC 10 weeks ago. I had no clue I was pregnant until last Wednesday. I went to the doctor fearing that something wasn't right after ERPC, been having pain and a test still showed positive. She took bloods which revealed that I pregnant, but she put me straight to hospital regarding the pain (thinking it was eptopic). I got put for a scan and got the shock of my life when they said that I was pregnant again and that I was 6+2. Now the thing was, I felt I was being really responsible after the ERPC. I did NOT have unprotected sex (always used condoms), I had my first period 6 weeks after the ERPC, which was infact not a period and I bled two weeks ago for one day only. Last week my Hcg levels were 10,000. Thinking I may have bled due to all the crap my body had been through. I've been so worried that I've fallen pregnant too quickly and its all going to happen over again. Thankfully the hospital have been great and are taking me for another scan a week today to see if they can detect a heartbeat, but obviously I'm not hopeful. I've had constant really strong period pains and every website I go on says that you should defininitely wait for at least one period before falling pregnant. I feel that if I lose this one, I've set myself up for a fall. Obviously the condom burst on us, but I had no idea, we've hardly ever used these as I had always been on the pill. I guess I just wanted to know if this has happend to anybody else and if they managed to get a baby at the end of it.
Tracey
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KiKitheC01 · 14/06/2021 20:38

I’ve read this whole entire thread and I’m hopeful but scared at the same time… I found out I was pregnant March 17th 2021 after a long week of confusing things happening like me not wanting the food I thought I wanted bc it was all of a sudden gross to me! 6 pregnancy tests and not one was failed! One day before my period was supposed to come actually. Things were great so I thought. I unfortunately found out I was having a miscarriage the day of my 12 week appointment. Kiddo was only measuring 9 weeks and 3 days despite me being 11 weeks and 5 days. A few hours after baby having no heartbeat was confirmed I started contracting so hard it was crazy. My water actually broke while I was in the shower and the process started. I’ve been going thru it emotionally. I find myself rubbing my stomach sometimes accidentally. I only bled for exactly a week. I had very small amounts of different colored spotting. I kept a liner on at all times to see and got my negative tests. We started trying again the day I stopped bleeding and almost every day since hoping to catch an egg. Tomorrow, June 15 2021, will be 5 weeks since it happened. I haven’t gotten not a drop of blood yet. I had some slight twinges on my lower right side. Slight cramps in the pelvic area that come and go. I tested yesterday morning and this morning as well. They were both negative. I am still feeling these little cramps and they don’t feel like my period cramps usually feel and my cycle has always been super normal and never off. I’m not sure if I could be pregnant again yet but my fingers are crossed so hard they might be broken. Any advice helps!!! I’ve miscarried before but it was a while ago and I definitely didn’t try again because I didn’t want a high school baby lol.

KiKitheC01 · 14/06/2021 21:18

Oh and I’ve been pooping a lot lately and very gassy and I was the same way when I found out I was pregnant before but then again ik women get that way before their periods so I just don’t know.😞😩

BaaBaaEmily · 14/06/2021 21:44

Sorry for your loss @KiKitheC01 I have no advice unfortunately as I'm in the same situation - had a mmc 7 weeks ago, had surgical then medical management after which I finally stopped bleeding 3 weeks ago. I had a very faint positive test 2 weeks ago which I think was the end of the retained products coming out and I haven't tested since until today and have a very faint positive so no idea if it's still some retained products or if it's a new pregnancy. Will test again in a few days and hopefully see a darker line.
I think cycles can be really messed up after a mc so it's hard to know when AF will come!

KiKitheC01 · 15/06/2021 00:32

@BaaBaaEmily Like omg it’s so annoying I just have the urge to keep testing when I feel even a single cramp that feels familiar to a pregnancy cramp. Trying to distract myself from the grief and from the curiosity. We’re gonna make it tho!❤️

BaaBaaEmily · 15/06/2021 10:38

How are you doing today @KiKitheC01 have you tested? I've held off (so far!)

KiKitheC01 · 16/06/2021 03:51

@BaaBaaEmily

I’m so annoyed with myself, I caved TODAY and got a negative, and then I just got some brownish bleeding… could it be implantation bleeding and I’m just not getting a positive yet or my period🥺

BaaBaaEmily · 16/06/2021 09:19

I really hope it is implantation bleeding - have you had it before?
I'm still waiting to test - trying to hold out as long as I can!

KiKitheC01 · 16/06/2021 14:47

@BaaBaaEmily
It was my dang period, ugh I feel like I’m never gonna get pregnant and do it for real.😞

BaaBaaEmily · 16/06/2021 17:31

Ah I'm sorry @KiKitheC01 that sucks! Hopefully next cycle will be the one for you. Did it take you long to conceive your mc?

KiKitheC01 · 16/06/2021 19:23

@BaaBaaEmily

Actually no conceiving wasn’t hard at all we literally said we wanted to try it and the day before my period boom I’m pregnant, just can’t hold them

KiKitheC01 · 16/06/2021 19:23

Maybe just my body needed a break I don’t know, hopefully tho

simmonsamanda · 26/12/2021 23:04

Getting pregnant before period after miscarriage how do u know if u don’t know your ovulation

Anna2467 · 23/03/2022 05:59

I just had a miscarriage on February 16th I just took a pregnancy test on March 11th and got a positive result how many weeks would I be then. Someone please tell me how far I’d be

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