Due late Oct 🎃 - early Nov 🎉

[Foxella]

I don’t know when I’m due, I’ve not had a period since DS was born but I got 1-2 weeks on a Clearblue digi this morning which puts me sometime late October or early November (I think!)
Feels like I’m too far behind the October group but too early for a November one… anyone due a similar time and want to join me? Would love to have some company 😊

One of my friends just blantantly asked if i was pregnant which I thought was very rude. I didnt say yes or no just dashed around the subject as didnt want to say no or yes but just angers me. If I was ready to tell you I would!

@thebirdinthecave could you afford a private one in a weeks time to put your mind at ease either way? 💗

@MrsSjc22 glad all is well 🥰

@Annny27 Wow yeah that was rude of her! You definitely do not owe her any kind of answer.

We can't afford a private scan at the moment as we just spent £600 getting the car fixed x__x

@thebirdinthecave :( adulthood is just cost after cost isnt it! Yeah I was really taken aback that she would ask! Even if I suspect I wait till they say haha

I’ve just requested to join the Facebook group :)

My nausea is really ramping up and my clothes are getting very tight…probably all the extra beige foods I’m eating to battle the nausea.

@TheBirdintheCave I’m sorry you’re going through a difficult time. I guess they must have protocols and 2 weeks is probably given so that they can be 100% sure either way. I wouldn’t want anyone writing me off too early either if there was still a chance…. I can’t imagine how hard it must be though and I imagine it must feel like an extremely long 2 weeks! Just try and take each day as it comes.

I've just requested to join the Facebook group too - I was Springtime22 but had to change my user name :)

@Lemonbell I’m in the same boat :( Sorry it’s happening to you too. It’s a shit boat to be in.

@Lemonbell Wow that’s a long wait! :O Mine is the 29th of March. I’m going to see if I can arrange something earlier instead though as a week should be long enough to see that it hasn’t grown. I’m so keen to just move on and try again.

The nausea is starting earlier and earlier. Apparently weeks 9 is the peak which is next week for me!

What's working for everyone other than eating? Haha

I am trying to eat every hour but when you feel nauseous it's last thing on your mind isn't it

@Lemonbell Have you tried testing again for a vague indication of how your HCG levels are? I had a go this morning on a two hour hold with a cheapie and had a control dark positive in about twenty seconds. Not sure what this means in terms of MMC (which is what I think has happened to me) but in any case I was surprised as, after the spotting, I was expecting it to be very faint. Could be worth a go for you? Watch for hook affect though. I was planning on diluting and testing again if it was faint just to double check.

Happy Friday everyone! I've just come back from my scan. Happy to report all looks good, I'm measuring exactly 8 weeks today! Got to hear the heartbeat which was amazing - It all feels much more real now! Hope you all have a good day!

Having an OK day. Lack of symptoms concerns me. I'm back to normal energy level and no nausea or vomiting. Counting days until appointment on 4th April. Still seems far away. Never realised how anxious pregnancy would make me or the fact it would make me question everything.

Have a course on Thursday and I'm worrying about it because it's active and if something does go wrong then injuries etc could happen. I'll still be less than 10 weeks.

@Lemonbell That all sounds really positive! And yes if you don't know when you ovulated then you are in with a good chance of everything being ok just a little smaller than expected :) I really hope that's the case for you!

The earliest I could possibly be is 6+3 today based on the last time we had sex. Hopefully I can convince them to scan me earlier or I might just cave and book a private scan on the Tuesday to see if anything has got any bigger.

I hope you are all okay and your pregnancies go well.

After a week on positive thoughts as my spotting had stopped on Sunday, I have passed a blood clot this morning and am now bleeding - so this is the end for me. Lots of love to you all, hang in there - try and stay positive and wishing you all happy and healthy pregnancies. :)

Sorry for your loss @abbiL0u 💗💗

I've not been on here for a few weeks. So sorry to see some people having losses or threatened losses. Its so shit wish I could fix it all for you ❤

Hope everyone else is OK too. I've not been able to do much as I'm always so poorly in the 1st trimester. @Annny27 I've found eating every hour makes the nausea much worse. I tend to have fluids for the first couple of hours then a small sandwich and maybe a few sour sweets or cheese and onion crisps then wait till tea time. They less often i eat the better the nausea is. Don't know if it would work for everyone but when I was eating once an hour I could barely move and was vomiting but this way I can get things done and get through work at least. Just looking forward to the second trimester so much now so I can get back to feeling like a human being.

@AbbiL0u Nooo! I’m so sorry :( Take good care of yourself! Xx

So sorry to hear about people suffering losses. I hope you all stay strong.

Today I had a private viability scan, got to see the heart beat and arms and legs wiggling about. Baby measured 8+6 so a little further along than I thought but maybe it’s just big!

@DogsAndBirds congrats. Great scan. Always good to hear positive news.

Sorry for your loss @AbbiL0u