I have HG and I have taken no time off whatsoever. I'm way too anxious about how my job will be held for me whilst I'm on mat, because my current programme actually ends at around the time I'll be taking off. So yeah, very focussed right now on being a totally dependable superwoman.
I want them to say "omg, how will we ever cope without PeeAche" not "oh well, she's been off 3 times this month anyway"
Unfair though because I'm puke city.
I'm not a fan of sweeping "if men had to" statements BUT...
If men had to deal with this shit, there'd be 24 months of maternity at full pay and you'd probably get a special Pregnancy Assistant to rub your back, feed you dry crackers and whisper "there there, I'll clean that up, you go and have a little lie down"