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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Due Feb 2021 - the one they are finally born 🍀✨

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Newmumfeb2021 · 03/02/2021 16:39

@Thegirlhasnoname** 4th Feb Boy- Born 25th Jan Isaac
@IamC*- Baby Girl born 28th Jan Norah
@OnNaturesCourse 12th Feb Boy-Born 29th Jan
@Char41zam 13th Feb Girl- Born 30th Jan Leila
@Ironmummy28 1st Feb Surprise- Born 1st Feb Girl Florence

@ExhaustedMumofsix 30th Jan Girl
@Babydust2412 3rd Feb Boy
@MacMummy95 4th Feb Girl
@Piccalily19 7th Feb Boy
@017HF 7th Feb Surprise
@Ohtheheartburn 8th Feb Boy
@Lnbarne 8th Feb Girl
@Muriel84 10th Feb Surprise
@SearchingForToes 11th Feb Surprise
@MrsMesh 13th Feb Boy
@Little11 13th Feb Surprise
@Baby2onboard 13th Feb Boy (CS booked 3rd)
@babbit87 16th Feb Surprise
@Wannabe123 19th Feb
@BattenburgBerry 20th Feb Surprise
@Ariana87 20th Feb
@Nursey1993 20th Feb Girl
@TeaPiglet** 20th Feb Surprise
@Snorlax86 21st Feb Surprise
@Safxxx 21st Feb Boy
@Jbx10 22nd Feb Girl
@Pampero 22nd Feb Surprise
@Stef92 23rd Feb Boy
@Summertime1992 23rd Feb Girl
@ClockSpanner 24th Feb Boy
@Bambino87 25th Feb Surprise
@Faithfulbird20 25tb Feb Surprise
@TooManyDinosaurs1 26th Feb Surprise
@LBoz39 26th Feb Surprise
@Newmumfeb2021 27th Feb Surprise
@BL89 28th Feb Surprise
@Theonewheretherewas4 4th March

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Muriel84 · 11/02/2021 20:13

@Dorset555 I was due yesterday. Maternity fetal assessment unit. I should really be on my ball but just can’t be arsed. Eating dates which i hate. 😣

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 20:20

Aha thanks @muriel84 I hate my ball and I hate dates too! Have you tried them drowed in vanilla Hagen Daz? Really quite nice!
So bizarrely I've got updates...I sent off an email to my maternity unit asking if any chance of an earlier appointment and I've received 2 calls in the last 5 mins! 1 offering me a space at the top of their acupuncture wait list and the other offering me a sweep tomorrow at 6pm! I've taken both! I'm really impressed with the service...the frustrating thing is if you don't know what you should ask for i guess you miss all this stuff. A big thank you to you guys you've prompted me to get this sorted and its working! Horray for the NHS ! Xx

babbit87 · 11/02/2021 20:21

@Dorset555

And thanks *@bambino87* too...it all so confusing but I'm sure we will all get there in the end. More bouncy ball and pineapple for me. Might even try sex! ...actually...no..not that desperate...yet!😂
@Dorset555 mw suggested that to me too and I just pulled an unimpressed face! Last thing I want to be doing right now!!! Hahaha
Muriel84 · 11/02/2021 20:29

@Dorset555 oh amazing! Is the acupuncture to help bring on labour? Does sound really impressive. Where are you booked? That’s so good about the sweep too hopefully it’ll help get things going over the weekend! Maybe a Valentine’s Day arrival ☺️X x x

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 20:37

I'm so impressed! Its the Whittington in North London. Yep acupuncture is to induce labour too - fingers crossed!
But yea unless you know what to ask for i feel you could really get very different levels of care which is a shame.
Would people recommend taking hospital stuff in the car to the appointment/s just in case...or is that wishful thinking?!?
@BABBIT87 🤣🤣🤣 now that I've got a sweep and maybe acupuncture on the horizon there is no way in the world I'm entertaining sex 😂

Clockspanner · 11/02/2021 21:14

@Dorset555 sex totally worked for getting DC2 out if you can manage the idea of it! Sweep was what worked for DC1 though.

With DC1 I wasn't able to have a sweep till 41w then with DC2 they did it at 40+5 and now in a different trust with DC3 like I said they did offer today at 38+1 until they changed their mind and now booked for 39+1... so all totally different..! Wonder why its not more consistent?

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 21:22

@Clockspanner thank you and will bear in mind if tomorrow's appointments don't get things going! 😂
I thinknthat All.the trusts have a certain freedom to do what they feel is best within the NICE guidelines - i feel like it does makes sense that they aren't constrained to a hard and fast one size fits all approach....but it can lead to alot of us feeling very confused over differences in advice!

Clockspanner · 11/02/2021 21:28

@Dorset555 Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow!

I agree I think having freedom to decide and not having a hard and fast rule is definitely the best approach so wouldn't want there to be some blanket rule about how far along you need to be, but the variation without much in the way of explanation is what is interesting to me I guess!

Safxxx · 11/02/2021 21:29

@Muriel84 @Dorset555 some dates are not nice, i usualy buy large Medjool dates which i enjoy alongside some mixed nuts. There are other varieties which are chewy/caramel taste and are tasty too.

Don't know why in the last couple of hours been very snappy, i hate this heart burn makes my chest/breasts and upper back hurt, tummy is rock hard and the pressure from the piles hurts 😩 times like now i wish i can just go into labour straightaway, its easier said then done ehh, i say i rather wait let nature take its cause, other hand if there was a magic wand i'll bring on this labour now 😣

Safxxx · 11/02/2021 21:38

Anyones elses baby tucked under ribcage? Mine is head down, he's body to my right hes bum and legs under ribcage and feet on my left side of tummy.
That position increases my heart burn and pain, he's been in this position for a while but now that hes getting bigger its more uncomfortable.

Bambino87 · 11/02/2021 21:57

@Dorset555

That's amazing good luck with both 😍 I'll need to stick with my raspberry tea and dates 🤣🤣🤣🤣

TeaPiglet · 11/02/2021 22:14

@Safxxx my baby's in exactly the same position, occasionally I can actually see a D feel baby wiggling toes under my ribs

Also I would defo take my hospital bag tomorrow. Better to have it and not need it.

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 22:17

Thanks @bambino87 and @clockspanner ill let you know how I get on!
Sending you all positive vibes!Xx

Newmumfeb2021 · 11/02/2021 22:23

@Safxxx MW confirmed today exactly what you’ve described as the position. The only difference is that I don’t get heartburn so much. Hope you feel better soon 💜

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Newmumfeb2021 · 11/02/2021 22:25

@Dorset555 I’ve been carrying hospital bags for my last 3 appointments (including today). As a dry run. Along with the car seat in the boot of the car. I’m just too excited 😁

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TeaPiglet · 11/02/2021 22:32

@Dorset555 what's your due date and are you having boy/girl? Just noticed you're not on the list 💔

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 22:50

@TeaPiglet I was a bit of a latecomer to the group but very happy to have found it! I was due last Sunday 7th feb...we are having a surprise...well hopefully..at my last midwife appt she declared 'so you're having a girl' ! I'm hoping she was just plucking something out of thin air and there is nothing in the notes?! Would be really annoyed if she spoiled the surprise after 40 weeks and 4 days!
@Newmumfeb2021 - right the car is getting loaded up tomorrow! Thanks!! X

pampero · 11/02/2021 22:52

@Safxxx that position is exactly the same position my little one was in the last few weeks except on the other side. Sometimes I gave a rub /encouragement and she eventually moved enough to not be entirely digging in....was a bit hit and miss but relieving when it worked x

TeaPiglet · 11/02/2021 22:53

@Thegirlhasnoname 4th Feb- Born 25th Jan Isaac
@IamC- Baby Girl born 28th Jan Norah
@OnNaturesCourse 12th Feb Boy-Born 29th Jan
@Char41zam 13th Feb- Born 30th Jan Leila
@Ironmummy28 1st Feb- Born 1st Feb Girl Florence
@Piccalily19 7th Feb Boy- 3rd Feb Zachary
@Baby2onboard 13th Feb Boy- Born 3rd
@Pampero 22nd Feb- 5th Feb Isobella
@MacMummy95 4th Feb Girl- Born 7th
@Wannabe123 19th Feb- Born 9th Archie
@SearchingForToes 11th Feb- Born 9th Boy
@Babydust2412 3rd Feb-Born 10th Avery
@Lnbarne 8th Feb- Born 10th Lydia Jean

@ExhaustedMumofsix 30th Jan Girl
@017HF 7th Feb Surprise
@Dorset555 7th Feb Surprise
@Ohtheheartburn 8th Feb Boy
@Muriel84 10th Feb Surprise

@MrsMesh 13th Feb Boy
@Little11 13th Feb Surprise
@babbit87 16th Feb Surprise
@cat709 16th Feb Girl
@BattenburgBerry 20th Feb Surprise
@Ariana87 20th Feb
@Nursey1993 20th Feb Girl
@TeaPiglet 20th Feb Surprise
@Snorlax86 21st Feb Surprise
@Safxxx 21st Feb Boy
@Jbx10 22nd Feb Girl
@Stef92 23rd Feb Boy
@Summertime1992 23rd Feb Girl
@ClockSpanner 24th Feb Boy
@Bambino87 25th Feb Surprise
@Faithfulbird20 25tb Feb Surprise
@TooManyDinosaurs1 26th Feb Surprise
@LBoz39 26th Feb Surprise
@Newmumfeb2021 27th Feb Surprise
@BL89 28th Feb Surprise
@Theonewheretherewas4 4th March

TeaPiglet · 11/02/2021 22:54

@Dorset555 don't worry about it, there's nothing in notes and unless you ask the ultrasound person to check then they don't. I've had MW say he/she loads of times haha, it's annoying though tbh

Dorset555 · 11/02/2021 23:02

@TeaPiglet
Thank you for adding me and for the reassurance!

faithfulbird20 · 12/02/2021 04:03

I think my urine infection might have turned into a kidney infection because I had really bad upper back pain, vomited and then started shivering (not sure if the shivering is due to the cold weather)...rang triage and they want to check me over so heading to hospital at 4am...I hope everything will be okay. I was feeling alright until midnight today. Even saw my MW and @Safxxx my baby is in the same position as yours. I just hope they're okay. I really want more children after this and think how will I do it.

faithfulbird20 · 12/02/2021 04:04

No symptoms of labour yet though...still a waiting game...

Safxxx · 12/02/2021 06:44

@faithfulbird20 oh dear hope you feel better soon 🤞
Trust me we all say not having more children after enduring all the pains, but as soon as you hold your child its all worth it. Somehow we do it all over again, you will be fine Xxx

ExhaustedMumofsix · 12/02/2021 07:05

Well, woke up this morning to my waters breaking.. An hour before my alarm to get up and ready for my induction 😂
Very mild contractions every 10-20 mins or so, just wasting time scoffing breakfast now lol.
Can't believe the little sod waited 13 days to get a move on 😂