Due January - anyone else?

[Onekidnoclue]

Just got my BFP after six bloody long months of trying. Thrilled but a bit weirded out! Anyone in the same boat?

I'm so sorry @Hopefulmummie. Sending all my love and prayers to you x

So I'm being kept in overnight for observations as the sharp pain has came back
The Dr rescanned me and is happy enough that I don't need surgery and is going to give me injection and see how it goes x

That's better than an op. Your being very strong is dh aloud to be with u xx

@gracex4 yes he's been allowed to stay and staying with me until I get a bed. I know the main hospital isn't aloud visitors so he will probably have to go when I go there . They've took his tempature twice and I had to get a coronavirus swab done
. It was the most horrible thing ever

Yeh I had to be swabbed for c19 not nice is it. Don't let this put u off trying. Everything happens for a reason x

Thank you everyone. I'm still waiting on getting my injection but hopefully I will be aloud home tomorrow.

Talk away on here I dont mind. I really wish you all a healthy and happy pregnancy x

Hi @Hopefulmummie I hope the hospital ward is OK and you are able to get rest. I don’t know if it is possible to sleep in situations like this but If it is possible I hope you get some sleep. Thinking of you and sending love. I really hope the next time for you is complication free. You are clearly a kind and strong woman and you will be an amazing mum one day soon xxx

@dragon82 thank you for the lovely message. The hospital have been so good to me especially the midwives earlier. I'm now in the main hospital and on a side ward so hoping I get some sleep. I had the injection around 9pm and apparently it makes you really tired x

Hope you had a restful night @Hopefulmummie x

Sending love and good wishes @hopefulmummie xx

Thank you all.

So I've to stay in hospital until Sunday at least :( I really thought I was getting out today but because I'm in pain they have to keep an eye on me incase I need surgery.
They'll do my bloods tomorrow and Saturday and if the injection is working I'll be allowed home on Sunday

That's a long old time isn't it, get dh to get u magazines and lots of chocolates xx

@Hopefulmummie it's devastating news for you. I found mumsnet invaluable through my losses because it always reminds you that you aren't alone.
There is always someone else who understands exactly what you are going though as there are so many threads happening all the time. Good luck over the next weeks. X

Nice to see you here @Belalice. We have the same due date. X

Today I am sick ridiculously sick 🤢 I have mw appointment tomoz x

Oh crap @gracex4 how are you managing the little ones with sickness?

There all at full time school thank god! It's cooking everyone dinner that's a killer but dh been working late so that sucks I can't stop burping literally can not stop I'm a delight x

The burping is bad isn't it!!!!!!!

Worther's originals have been saving my life. They take away the horrible bitter taste I have constantly.

@Hopefulmummie sorry to hear you’re being kept in until Sunday but you will have a medical team looking after you so you’re in good hands. Hope you’re getting rest but I guess it’s a painful experience. Are you able to eat and sleep ok, or is it a case of just getting through it? Hope you get access to some effective painkillers in hospital rather than usual aspirin etc. Is your DH able to visit you? We are here for you. Hope you are able to avoid surgery, I have no idea what that involves. I think ectopic pregnancy is very rare so I’m sorry you’ve been so incredibly unfortunate xxx

@dragon82 thank you for the message. I've had a tough day today firstly finding out I'll be here to Sunday. I've been in a lot of pain from about 12 today .. the worst pain on my left hand side where pregnancy is.. Dr said its to be expected once injection starts working I guess it's made worse knowing what's actually happening and bleeding more.
They gave me something stronger as I was in agony but I'm not great with strong pain relief and it completely wiped me out and made me feel horrible then I threw everything up :( it was a horrible few hours.
Still in pain but hoping to get something stronger soon to help me sleep. I slept ok last night woke up about 5 am today but think it will be different tonight as I had no pain last night

No visitors allowed up into the ward which is shit but I've been able to go downstairs to meet my husband and mummy and sister it was nice seeing them for the 1st.

I'm in a side ward so even more boring but think they'll be moving me to the main ward once my covid results come back clear.

Again thank you all for the thoughts x

Surgery would require them removing the tube if the injection isn't working although they said it barely affects future fertility like you would think it would maybe only 2 or 3%

@gracex4 I was also very sick yesterday and this morning, my eldest Foster boy (7) has said he wants me to get breakfast in bed... He's not being nice he just doesn't like me Gipping 😂.

Doctor gave me some tablets to help called cyclizine not started yet but hopefully when I do they will help with the sickness x

Hope the pain eases soon @Hopefulmummie, and you manage to get some rest xx

Hope the tablets help @angelascott a friend of mine is on them and says they have worked wonders.

I’m currently debating the perfect toast intake. Too much and I’ll get constipated (again). Too little and I feel sick.... my life is so glamourous. I need to get off Instagram. I think everyone else is living it up looking hot and baking while I’m having a LONG ponder about the relative problems of stuck poo and sickness

It's really crap isn't it. My MW just rang has booked me in for all bloods etc tomorrow.
@Hopefulmummie make another thread hun that way it won't be filled with all our sickness rubbish because we have filled this one fast 🤣 nattering we can all join you as id love to stay in touch ❤️ and this is just another path in your journey u always end up where u need to be in the end xx

I have stuck poo too 😞was told to get lactulose which doesn't really do anything and taste like pure syrup maybe good if I can keep enough of it down🤢 I'm sat eating a sharing bare of malteasers which I will cry with heartburn in a minute