My DD2 is also evidence of it being easier second time around. DD1 was a surprise but on the basis that we'd been told it was highly unlikely to happen naturally. Good luck LNT.
How exciting QOD! You are currently saving me from a truly shit film and a can't be arsed to find lost remote control. For that alone I am very grateful. Excited about a whole new potential life too. . Now, don't you dare disappear.
V. exciting for you too dizzy! Will prob. see A tomorrow so good to know that she knows now.
LOTI . Please don't feel that having their Dad at home is automatically better than not for the DDs. Not only are you not happy - and please don't kid yourself that they don't pick up on this (sorry to be harsh) - but you have to think about what kind of example this situation is setting for them (sorry for being even more harsh). In nearly all cases I feel strongly that every relationship is different and impossible to judge from the outside. However, you've been pretty consistent in your view of things. . If you have a chance, take a look back through our old threads.