wow JBM, that's fab. Hope you have a healthy and comfortable few weeks.
I will try to follow your advice, well, I am trying that anyway, I have lots of things I want sorting before he comes back. I suppose I really meant I'm just glad he's ready to talk and see it from more than just his point of view, IYSWIM? He won't be back installed in front of the TV tomorrow or anything, we have a way to go, but if we both want the same things then surely that's a start? ANd then when we've sorted ourselves out we have DS1 to sort
had a long chat to his student mentor this morning after his chat with her yesterday - he could well have made a bad situation worse, but thankfully she seems very good at her job and seems to understand where he is in his mind. I feel better for talking to her!
Have collected my electric guitar, though I am probably not going to give it to DS1 until his birthday as it's only next week, and he can't be getting used to getting expensive stuff (even if it was free, it would have cost a lot if I'd bought it - there is some logic there!) all the time.
Cleaned out the shed this morning and found loads of seeds. Bugger. Never mind! Will pass on my spares to Dsis for her allotment.
Hair appointment later - fingers crossed DH gets out of the hospital in time to collect baggins 15 minutes earlier than we agreed...
have a great day everyone