Hello everyone, thanks for the messages, and hope that the sleep stuff goes well tonight Miamla.
WRT when do you play as DS is always sleeping or napping - here the definite time for the park is after the second nap - and he will often have his tea as a picnic if we aren't going to be home. More so in the summer, as it is really too hot to go out before 4pm.
I have a friend with 2 DC and she said that most of her day is filled with one or other of them eating or sleeping.
Was it hp who said that if her DC woke up crying she tried to get them back to sleep - I usually take the same approach.
Yesterday was rubbish, with very poor naps, but today I went out on my own (for some blood tests, but there have been cases of swine flu at the hospital so I didn't want to take DS). I don't think that I have been ALONE for that long since before DS came along. Before I got married I spent lots of time alone. It's really funny how different things are.
Re: the new one, everything going OK so far I think. I'm still shattered and a bit pukey feeling. Re names: well, I think that it was the LadyofWaffle who said that she couldn't name a boy James to go with Tom as it would be too much like Thomas the Tank Engine. Now, I just think that this is really cool! Unfortunately the Spanish for James is Jaime or Santiago. I don't like Jaime (would be pronounced Hi-Meh) and I quite like Santiago but it would be shortened to Santi, which I don't like at all. DH fairly adament that we will have Spanish spellings so I think that I am losing the battle here. Maybe Ignacio for a boy, with Nacho or Jed as a nickname (Jed because we are still watching teh West Wing, but I am not sure this is the best reason for naming a child). We still have Isabel saved up for a girl. DHs surname is A T so any names starting with E or F are completely out I think, which means no Eduardo or Francisco, which we both quite like.
Re: double buggies - do they generally go through doorways or not?
PS another vote here for thelovelypf as a name