I would have dreaded 4 boys... but now I actually have one, it doesn't seem such an horrific prospect!
Is this the friend whose dp has left her?
Feeding is better- definitely. He is sucking more strongly- less air being taken in, and more milk I m guessing- he fed at 8:30, and has just woken for next feed wow- sleep!
Flame- hope Dude is okay- there are still LOTS of vommy viruses going round here- at the hosp, they had signs up saying visitors restricted to 1 named visitor per day, and NO children. Must be very hard if you're in for a long time.
It is actually very sobering being in the children's part of the hospital (though decor is lovely, and seems really comfortable) I do not know how parents cope when their child has a serious or chronic condition it was quite upsetting seeing/hearing the other patients