April 2007 - piercings, puddings and periods

[StealthPolarBear]

the word period can't be offensive...can it?

Agree oooggs, dh and I got to breaking point after ds was born. Got through it though, but not a nice place to be.

Oh GMM, you sound so low. I was the same with dh after B was born. We had to work bloody hard to get back on track. Sorry, you probably don't want to hear that.

Thinking of you.

Is there anything that I can do GMM? Feel helpless over here

I cant take C out of bed and into the cold.

He came back, had a cig then went into the spare bed, I went up to try and sort things, wasnt interested, I asked him if he wanted me to leave him alone, he said yes, so I did.

Thank you all for being so kind - you are making me cry (even more)

I snapped when he was 14 mths it had built up so much and was brave enough to admit it and ended up on ads for 3 mths and then everything was great - not saying that it will go/or you will let it get that far.

I was a mumsnetter but didn't have the courage to talk about it as wasn't on a regular thread with regular people - we are here for you - come and stay with me - dh is away and you can come to the meetup

then again weeonion is probably closer!!!!

when ds1 was 14 mths - and I can't believe I have just told you all that

I dont know what to do at the moment, whether just to leave it, or to make plans... my mum is off to London tomorrow so not much help there, althoug I have looked at train times to London..

To be honest I'm starting to theink about AD's. I feel so black inside. So sad, even though I have nothing to be sad about.

Its nothing to be about oooggs

I honestly think that you need some time out GMM, maybe your mums or london would be a good idea. Some space to clear your head and some help with C so that your body can heal.

I dont want to get her involved if that makes sense? Once I go there its point of no return? Plus the thoughtof me and C on a train for 6 hours is horrific!!

oh gmm - talking is great and we are all here (but it is nearly my bedtime and my bed has been on 25min ) anyone in rl you can talk to? my dr was great and I don't think dh realsied the severity of it until then, he soon bucked his ideas up - lucky we didn't have twins first - may not have survived

I can understand that but I do think that you and C could do with being out of the house for a few days (especially this weekend)
I have got the busiest weekend here or you know that I would have gladly had you and C over

Oh, GMM - sounds like you could really do with getting away for a fewdayswith C. You both needsome timandspae. Sosorry you are going through this sweetie - As has been said, a baby can put enormous strains on a relationship. {{{{{hugs}}}}}

if you need to get far, far, far, far away the South East is very nice so I've heard Spare room waiting for you and C anytime. xx

Babysitting for friends atm - they havea colour-changing mouse shock] I am most excited!

Its ok, we can find places to go, it'll be fine. Just gona sit tight tonight and see if things sort themselves out.

In case you hadn't noticed - the spacebar doesn't work too well on this ketboard!!

If you don't want to go on a train - there's always air travel - costs about the same if you shop around. xx

right then my lovelies I'm off to bed before round two (ds2 and his midnight party )!!!!!!

GMM do you want me to give you a call in the morning?

Had to take S to the drs this afternoon because of a yucky cough. Dr said not an infection but wheezing so came home with inhalers etc poor little man

Night oooggs - hope there isn't any midnight parties and just nice sleeping children ALL NIGHT! xx

Night night oooggs, hope that you have a good night

How's it going Luce?

Will give you a ing in the morning Luce hope S is ok bless him.

Well I'm still sat here... cant see him coming down now.

Bedlam and worried about GMM

How are you?