Morning all,
Still full of the cold  I didn’t sleep all night, my mind was just whirring away  ds slept through until 5.45! So I should’ve had a decent sleep .... he did stir a few times but self settled within 5 mins if not quicker.
@Blondeshavemorefun Sorry to hear about your parents and inlaws  I don’t have inlaws but luckily have my parents and know what you mean about feeling sad for LO that they won’t meet grandparents.
@NameChange30 I absolutely hate my hair all over the carpets/ flooring no matter how much I hoover! Ds has a new habit of holding my hair whilst he has his milk and after there is a clump in his hands  I have dark thick hair so I’ve still got plenty
The sleep lady - I saw her at her sleep clinic for 1h consultation held in Edinburgh (as she is from here) and then two follow up calls for £75. However because we didn’t use the full hour at the sleep clinic (as she felt the issue was his allergy and we needed to deal with that first), she offered me an extra call. If I needed her further she would’ve charged £65 for 3 further calls. I know your not in Edinburgh and given that a tailored plan will be required for your needs why don’t you give her a quick call and explain the situation and ask her for her fees depending on what she thinks you require? Even if you are creating and following your own plan there is no harm enquiring.
@coupester And @HughLauriesStubble Thanks I think I’ll make an appt with the GP and ask for both to be checked.
Yesterday dh decided he wanted to change ds routine from 7-7 to 7.30-7.30 and so woke him at 07:20 (in an attempt to ease him
Into it) and then moved naps forward. Result was that his morning nap moved forward ok but then he got overtired between morning and afternoon nap and settled very late for afternoon nap, then woke up after 1 hour which he has Only done twice since he started sleeping 2 hours at this nap. Both times were because he was overtired when going down. So he was really grumpy in the afternoon and I put him down at 4 for an extra nap, he eventually nodded off at 4.45 and slept 30 mins. He was grumpy but slightly better after waking but was still ready to be asleep for 7.
I let dh try his routine because I felt I am always making decisions / being bossy about it but it was an epic fail if ds mood was anything to go by. Funnily enough I haven’t been strictly waking him up at 7am anyway recently and it’s not caused any issues so I’ve agreed to wake him by 7.30 if not already awake and keep everything else as is. Will tweak it if we need to but will see how we go for now. For ds it just shows how much he needs a stable routine.