YW if i could spare the postage I'd say yes like a shot
but am trying to find a trade for my wrap, plus have the library if needed - by the time the current one is due back and I've tried a mei tai for a month the geography of where i live means i won't need one as much hopefully
Horsey he's fine to drive, was banned for a month then told to use his judgement 
PR I'm thinking of bowing out unless everyone is happy to risk a homemade silly hat?
Zamboni if you can spare the time i could use some advice (professional) by pm. But only if you're happy with that 
Thank you for R's birthday wishes. We've had cake at bf group lots of teenies so hopefully the mums will see it's normal to carry on then lunch with my mum and "aunt" (family friend)and spread presents out, a couple first thing, one at group, one each from grandma and aunty, and MILs turned up in the post so he'll get that later after his walk with daddy.
On the subject of isolation, i probably have more friends now than ever! There are 8/9 of us with babies 8m+ who met at bf group and we've kind of huddled together, letting each other know when we're going to a play group etc. We started as a bit of an anti pnd movement making new mums to the group welcome, the rule is if your baby is calm you make the tea for everyone else :o i had a nice chat today with one who's back to work soon and might want a nanny and another one is high powered and commuting and happy to pay me to collect her dc from nursery if her train is delayed or dc ill etc. I had to get out there at the beginning though, which was easier for me than some due to vb and having everything on my doorstep iyswim. Also that lots of "people like us" attitude not financial status, we're a pretty mixed bunch socio-economically had babies at the same time 