Hello everyone I am comming out of hiding. Thanks for all the support you have given me over the last week.
HV is comming out today so will have a good chat to her about what has been going on. Rota system is working well. DH is doing his share of the jobs on there without a murmur (sp).
I am being a naughty mummy and resorting to tv to keep the children ocupied today so that I can get on with our bedroom as it is the last room to be sorted ready for their visit next week. They haven't given me a day to keep me on my toes I suppose.
I feel better for having a tidy house but am still pissed of about the way it was brought about iyswim.
I have certainly been finding out who my friends are over the last week. There have been a few who have felt the need to gossip about it and I am this weeks red hot topic on the playground. Shall hold my head high and meet all their looks. I shall talk to them and explain if they ask what has hapened but otherwise screw the lot of them. I don't need judging by the mummy mafia on the playground.
D is sitting well and still enjoying his meals. HV said she would weigh him today.
DD is having problems with the stress levels around here. She knows that something is going on and picked up on the SW comment that she wasn't going to recomend taking the children away to a foster home and keeps asking if the lady is going to take her mummy away. I am sure she thinks that she is being naughty and thats why the lady comes round and tells mummy off. She has started to have the odd accident durring the day and comes to me in tears to tell me that she is wet. I am doing my best to reassure her that everything is ok and that the lady won't take anyone away. I am trying to have as much time and fun with the kids as possible but need to get the last few jobs on the list done. I am now nagging to redecorate in 90 percent of the house even if it is just linning paper and paint as it will change the feel of the house completly. Most of it is still the same as it was when we moved in nearly 9 years ago.
Sorry not to do personals this time round but needed to get this lot off my chest.