Evening all, be warned super long post - not for the faint hearted
Twinkle sweetheart, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, sending you {{{cyber hugs}}} and thinking of you and your family at this sad time.
Londoner, sorry to hear you've been having a rough time, as Diege said you do always seem so together that it didn't occur to me that you might be down
let me know if you want to get together for a chat - if talking will help.
Tex so sorry to hear that Rosie is ill again, that's why we've been quiet too. Perhaps we should get together to sympathise with each other - the kids can't give each other anything else can they 
Chacha thanks for asking about the boys I'd love to say they are great but both are ill
Thomas has the tummy bug and dh took Ben to the dr's today for me who said all his glands are up, he's extremely run down and catching variations of everything going - yuck and now the little darling has passed the cough and cold on to me - lovely. That being said though we had parents evening tonight and Ben is doing fantastically at pre-school and I'm really proud of him and Thomas is just adoarable and I've loving virtually every minute with him, so much so I'd even consider having another one.
Golden thank you for your frank answer about the chasing a different sex child. It made me re-evaluate my thoughts on another baby and too be honest I've only just got my head around the fact that Thomas is a boy so don't know how I'd feel if we had a third boy and getting twins like you would scare the pants off me as I have enough trouble with the two boys I've got and there's a 3.9 year age gap!!!
Beartime & Diege I've just been reading your weighing norks conversation it made me laugh out loud
Karma don't worry Roger & Anne (the swingers) are very choosy & only for Essex couples they don't go for anyone north of the Watford Gap
Anyway don't worry we'll protect you!!! I'll try and ring you Friday for a chat but have Ben at home so it will have to be kids permitting
Nova hope Nat is feeling better soon, the antibiotics will do the trick in no time at all.
Diege & Busy we know the Hoobs too - that's what made me buy blackout curtains and they're hoobtastic - that's the curtains not the puppets 
Right off to bed as I feel like pants, plus I'm going to swing for my dh if I don't go to bed now as it's our wedding anniversary and I have definitely not been spoiled. 8 years today - he'll be lucky if he makes 9 
Hello to everyone else, hoep you are all well Beks