We all sit on the spectrum somewhere
No, we don't. You are autistic, or you aren't.
Autistic people are disabled by their condition. Nine-tenths of autistic women are sexual violence victims compared to one-third of our neurotypical counterparts. This is in large part because we are disabled. We lack the social skills to detect and skilfully evade sexual predators. This lack of social skills is a disability that results doing really badly at interviews, struggling to even write the application letters, being unable to cope with working in retail and hospitality, making enemies on the factory floor without understanding why, and being bullied in the office.
And then on top of that nine-tenths of autistic women live with the trauma of sexual assault. And yes, #metoo.
No wonder so many autistic people can't get or keep jobs.
Not to mention damaging children by giving them a label
It's far far more likely that an autism diagnosis will be missed than one be incorrectly given. The assessment protocol is multi-stage and involves multiple professionals. Source: recent personal experience.
I'm not damaged by my diagnostic label. I am damaged from spending over forty years unsupported, thinking that all the times I said the wrong thing without even realising it were some kind of moral failing on my part.