There are a lot of requests for spells today. Something in the air maybe?
Beginners shouldn't want or need to use a spell for anything that can easily or sometimes not so easily be resolved in the real world.
It's a technique, something that has to be learned. Unless your workings are spot on, you may not get what you thought you wished for. Or put another way, you'll probably get exactly what you wished for, but it may not be what you really wanted or what your think you wished for, because you didn't consider all the consequences.
Example, someone cast a spell for "Everything I could ever need" and that night her house burned down and she lost all her possessions.
If you think about it, her spell worked, because all you ever need is yourself.
With spellwork, you need to consider every angle and remember you're not Willow in Buffy and things don't work like they do in Sabrina the Teenage Witch or Harry Potter.
Lonely you need to look for a FINDING spell if you're intent on using one, but do think through all of the ramifications before you cast it.
If you do one for LOST things, you may end up losing a lot more than you already have.
Re mishandling things, spells aren't a way of absolving you of responsibility for your own past actions. It's probably much easier to face up to whatever it is and sort it out on this plane of existence because I doubt if a beginner would see all the possibilities that could occur with an intention like that.
I'm sorry that's probably not what you wanted to hear, but I've seen too many people who think spellcasting will be an easy way out of a situation they've got into and often it really is not.