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my neighbour assaulted my 5 year old!!!!

352 replies

hangingbyathread · 16/10/2006 16:18

saturday my dd was playing out front with the group when my neighbour in opposite house was coming back from the shop,my dd&her friend were standing in her way like kids do arms spread ect,she told my dd to move,when she didnt move she got her arm&shoved her out the way&my dd landed backwards in a bush,i have contacted the police&they have logged it as assault but now monday they still havnt come apparently they are "busy",iam fuming,i want to hit her but i know i will be arrested if i do,also what has upset me is i thought my friend&neighbour who dd plays with was my friend&to me loyalty is a big part of friendship but my friend has still carried on as normal,not stuck up for my dd&if it was me i would make it clear to the assaulter it is wrong to do that to a child(as i have said to her but got no response)also the problem i have now is my dd5 wants to go play out the front but i have tried explaining to her she cant until the police has been as the person may hurt her again as she obviouly thinks she"s got away with it as she has been sniggering&making gestures at me on the school run,what do i do iam so upset

OP posts:
Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 16:35

bakery?! Do tell...

moljam · 19/10/2006 16:37

i only wanted to know.

lulumama · 19/10/2006 16:37

well no-one will be calling anyone an idiot in there! i think it is in chat.....i had a strawberry tart and a couple of gingerbread men for the kids!! virtual bar will be open later too....!!

lulumama · 19/10/2006 16:39

not in chat

in other subjects

and bar usually in chat around 7.00!!

hangingbyathread · 19/10/2006 16:39

Spannapiana everyone said there piece over the last few days&the thread had come to an end then you come along and call me an idiot very adult of you

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Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 16:40

Excellent! Mine's a large medium white wine lol

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 16:42

Hanginbyathread...

It's not your call when a topic finishes just because you've had enough...

Personally I've found this one a hoot!

lulumama · 19/10/2006 16:45

fwiw - i was one of the first to post on this and would have liked to know how this has been resolved......

spannia - i will have your drink poured and waiting..!

hangingbyathread · 19/10/2006 16:46

Spannapiana ok then its your carry on,if thats what makes you happy
personally i think you need to get a life

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madmarchscare · 19/10/2006 16:48

god, is this still rattling on

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 16:48

After reading all of this, my god I'm glad I have one!!

theUrbanDryad · 19/10/2006 18:28

this has to be said.....

[peers under bridge and prepares for barrage of abuse]

misdee · 19/10/2006 18:31

hasnt this ended yet?

is the neighbour in jail?

is HBAT letting her dd out to play (supervised of course)?

lulumama · 19/10/2006 18:35

urban- i think HBT has just not quite got the hang of
'thanks for the advice..i'll let you know what happens......'

IFYSWIM

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 18:36

I'm with you, lulumama!

zippitippitoes · 19/10/2006 18:36

and i think spannapiana has not quite got the hang of mn either tbh

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 18:37

oooh ziptiptoes...bit harsh?!

zippitippitoes · 19/10/2006 18:38

I don't think so, you are being quite goading i think

lulumama · 19/10/2006 18:41

Zippi-

i think spannia is perhaps pushing the point!

but i have asked , politely , as one of the first people to post, what the outcome was and have not been answered.....

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 18:41

If you've been following this as a few have, you'll see I've been saying the same as vast majority. Goading in the end, perhaps, but only because it's infuriating when someone asks for advice, most feel the same but they don't listen. Now it is just boring. Some of us genuinely tried to help, but to no avail. Have you noticed how peeps have drifted off due to her rudeness and blabla comments? Don't ask for advice if you can't take it, in my humble opinion!

lulumama · 19/10/2006 18:42

agreed..spannia ..bar is open in chat... drink is ready for you!

Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 18:43

Need it now after this thread lol

zippitippitoes · 19/10/2006 18:43

but spanna you have taken it on to other threads which is not pleasant for the op of a thread or the person you are teasing

do you post on babycentre and loopylove dating by the way?

lockets · 19/10/2006 18:45

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Spannapiana · 19/10/2006 18:46

no...I'm a complete novice to virtual people as I have so many real ones in my own life to fulfill my life. Hence other thread with no tekkie experience to links!
And btw, Hangingbyathread came onto a separate thread and badmouthed me first, hence response.