how old where you when u first had sex?????

[nikcola]

i was 15 in the back of a car and you?????

Luminous, Beety?

17, with my guitar teacher !!

There's always time to catch up, Beety. I made hay in my early 30s for a bit!

I was 15 with a 21yr old, and I don't regret it.

21 with a gorgeous Greek guy when working on Rhodes for the summer. He'd never had a steady girlfriend, just tons of one-nighters. We were together 2 yrs until he had to go for national service. Soooooooooo romantic. However 1st time it happened I didn't realise till I saw the blood on the sheet! Bit of a let-down I guess but certainly got better.
As for other relationships - a few encounters (I couldn't have stayed a virgin till 32 when I got married)

is it just me or having read through this thread is anyone who was a bit younger feeling like they have to justify this by saying that they haven't slept with many people...feels like we're still in 1954 not 2004...are women not allowed to have multiple partners and feel ok about it? fwiw i slept with bf at 15. both virgins. was ok. was with him for 3 1/2 years. then had quite a few partners, some one night stands, some long term relationships. have been with dh for 6 years now (married 2 1/2)...why is it that there is shame associated with how many sexual partners a woman has had (or is it just me that feels that is the implication of some of the posts on this thread)...it makes me feel sad aren't we allowed to make whoopee...what if i was a mum and still enjoying sex with lots of different people, would that make me a bad person?...interested to hear about this from anyone with an opinion...

20 in Paris with my boyfriend of a year

I think you are a bad person cos I was so happy qith my fork - felt very smug on your thread - until you introduced the whole protein thing!

As for having lots of sexual partners? Well I breastfeed in public so I'm a slapper anyway.

seriously though if it doesnt hurt anyone then it doesnt matter either way.

hello herc...i am f*cker up of the happy fork home aren't i? i'm so sorry that i brought chicken into it

18 had been with him for 17 mths he was 37 and married (on verge of separation, his wife had another partner too) we were together for 3 yrs I don't regret it... break up was destroying though, too young to handle the emotions
erks

How the hell am I goin break this to dh now?

whoa kiwi, heavy duty...was the sex good at least???

I was 17, he was 23.I was completely in love with him.The sex was awful and I thought it was all my fault.Experience has shown me that he wasn't the greatest lover and also that his penis was REALLY small!!!!!!!
All the people who married their firsts...do you ever wonder ?? If you see what I mean?

spoh sex was very very good, I am lucky in that, but the emoptions were far too much for a 19 yr old to cope with... his divorce his kids (two older than me who hated me) I almost killed myself I was so overwhelmed... he cheated on me

18, desperate to pop cherry, so had one night stand with a 22 year old virtual stranger (friend of someone my friend kind of knew), and it was in my old primary school teacher's son's bed. No, he wasn't in it at the time. It was utterly rubbish and far more painful than I thought it would be, but its just one of many shgging experiences that's taught me the difference between crp, average and great sex.
Can't actually remember his name though. Do I win slapper of the year?

badhair...see my post below...NO it doesn't make you slapper of the year, makes you a woman who has experienced enough to know what she likes
kiwi, i'm so sorry, sounds awful...i thought that my question might have been a bit trite: and it was...at least all in past now?

Oh, go on, let me win a slapper prize. I've only slept with one person for the last 8 years so I'd like to hark back to my misspent youth and remind myself that I was most certainly not a nun.

I could be an ex slapper, I've done some miles... LOL

hmmm repossession of the word slapper as denoting woman of the world who knows what she likes in positive way...ok you can both have it, and me too

sophable - know what you mean. I know one woman who when telling me that she had had sex with 3 men in her life, coupled that with 'But I always had a ring on my finger from them'!?!?!

Tinker no!!!! Please tell me that she was at least 80??