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Original poster

I slept with my best friend last night

505 replies

AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

OP posts:
TaliDiNozzo · 25/10/2016 19:56

I did this and regretted it, but it took me a long time to figure out the guy was an enormous arsehole so in a roundabout way it was a good thing as it sort of brought all that to the forefront.

Years later a similar thing happened with another friend. We'd worked together for a while and were good friends. Several years and two DCs later....we seem to be doing okay with it!

APlaceOnTheCouch · 25/10/2016 19:57

Fingers crossed for you - part of me is hoping you're so engrossed in having a lovely night together that you can't post and part of me the selfish part is hoping you manage to slip away long enough to update Grin

wellynever · 25/10/2016 19:58

I came straight to the bottom of the thread to see if he's text back!

Hope you get the outcome you want Smile

Ilikegin · 25/10/2016 20:00

Ooh place marking

thatdearoctopus · 25/10/2016 20:01

I did this.

We've been married just over 21 years now.

0dfod · 25/10/2016 20:01

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

paranormalish · 25/10/2016 20:03

Is he your current best friend? It sounds like you are giving him ample time to perform a volte face.

SorryBlush

CanandWill · 25/10/2016 20:04

Good luck

ProseccoBitch · 25/10/2016 20:14

Jmangel your text idea was perfect!

I hope the OP comes back, I'm waiting with baited breath....

Titsywoo · 25/10/2016 20:15

I did this too. 15 years later and married with two kids. Still best mates Smile

wowwee123 · 25/10/2016 20:17

had to hop on and say good luck placemark

Amithenormalone · 25/10/2016 20:18

Hope its all working out the way you want it too.

JaiOm · 25/10/2016 20:19

Annnnddddd

Francescaestee · 25/10/2016 20:20

I have been married to my best friend for 9 years. Hope everything works out xx

Happybunny19 · 25/10/2016 20:24

God this is exciting. Have you texted him yet?

He sounds REALLY keen.

Shockers · 25/10/2016 20:29

I think the OP is busy...

BiscuitMillionaire · 25/10/2016 20:34

I bet the OP is having a long heart-to-heart phone conversation Smile

Hubblebubble64 · 25/10/2016 20:35

Come on, on the edge of my seat here😁

OSETmum · 25/10/2016 20:35

Ooh I love this so much 😍. We're going to need details here OP...

Bubbinsmakesthree · 25/10/2016 20:37

Another one here who married her best friend after we unexpected pounced on each other after a night out. Smile

pumpkinpiesforsupper · 25/10/2016 20:37

Have you gone for round two OP?

Rolocookies · 25/10/2016 20:38

Placemark.

Mummyhug · 25/10/2016 20:39

Aw I hope his reply is what you're hoping for!
Please let us know what happens!

Capricornandproud · 25/10/2016 20:39

Placemarking!

AyeAmarok · 25/10/2016 20:39

Happy shagging!