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I slept with my best friend last night

505 replies

AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

OP posts:
ALikelyStory · 25/10/2016 19:09

Oh I hope this is a happy ending

HermioneWeasley · 25/10/2016 19:10

Ooo, placemarking !

(Thought not sure OP has answered whether he was a good shag or not)

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 25/10/2016 19:10

Him saying "I've been waiting for this for a long time" sounds very promising (and you were both sober Grin). This is all looking good.

PerpendicularVincent · 25/10/2016 19:11

We need more details! What led up to it and what did you text?

FlyHighLittleBee · 25/10/2016 19:12

Oh OP. I'm so jealous!!

SarcasmMode · 25/10/2016 19:15

I hope you get the reaction you want.

:)

NoCapes · 25/10/2016 19:19

Oh this is going to have a happy ending I can feel it Grin

OP what have you said in your text?

FurryLittleTwerp · 25/10/2016 19:20

Is he your current boyfriend now?

cankles · 25/10/2016 19:21

Did he text back????!!!!!!!

Elfontheedge · 25/10/2016 19:21

Oh my goodness! We have to know! Hope he replies with what you want to hear Smile

Pisssssedofff · 25/10/2016 19:25

I hope it ends well. My boyfriend texted me within 15 mins of leaving the house having erm done the deed. I just think if they want to text they well text don't they ?

Bettercallsaul1 · 25/10/2016 19:26

If the spark isn't still there for him today, does that make him an old flame?

Rubberduck2 · 25/10/2016 19:28

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WoopWoop200 · 25/10/2016 19:30

I NEED TO KNOW IF HE REPLIED!!!!!!!!!
Good luck btw

laurzj82 · 25/10/2016 19:30

I need to know what happened! Good luck op

Scribblegirl · 25/10/2016 19:30

I'm just impressed you had a random shag on a Monday Shock

ohfourfoxache · 25/10/2016 19:30

It sounds like he really likes you op Grin

cakedup · 25/10/2016 19:31

Defo sounds like he likes you! I've got a good feeling about this.

rightguard · 25/10/2016 19:31

Any reply yet op?

StubbleTurnips · 25/10/2016 19:31

I did that with my best friend from uni, we've been married 10years now Grin

MrsA2 · 25/10/2016 19:32

Aww this is very exciting and cute!

themindbogglesallthetime · 25/10/2016 19:32

Any reply yet? Or are you in bed together?! Wink. Have a good feeling about this!

Bookridden · 25/10/2016 19:32

Where is the OP????? You can't leave us like this!

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 25/10/2016 19:33

Happily placemarking Smile

PaulDacresConscience · 25/10/2016 19:34

Currently looking at my best mate, 20 years after our first drunken accidental night together...