@norma27 - It just becomes too much.
I lost a friend to FL, every single time she met up, all she would do is try try recruit. Every time someone mentioned sports, she had a tablet, illness, she had a diet it was draining.
Literally all she talked about was FL.
In the end, our group stopped inviting her to events, she then turned on us all, haters and all that. She was part of the south wales gang, so I know how many of them are really really unliked by large groups of people.
It was sad, but had to be done, as she was tiring and the whole group dynamic was drained.