thanks Biwi
to answer your question, i am 5ft 8 and 178lb, so i have about 21lb to lose.
Re artificial sweetner, could about 1.5 teaspoons in one pudding over the course of a week really have resulted in a gain? i will cut it out and see but its not as if i'm having lots of it...
I have thought about cutting out dairy but i'm worried how i will cope as i've cut out so much already i dont want to start feeling deprived as thats when things can go tits up. so no coffee with cream, no yogurt and cream for breakfast, no cheese to make things delicious - it just seems too hard 
I don't know how else to up my fat, i am having an oily dressing with every salad and cooking with butter or coconut oil. i can't eat mayo unless its mixed into something, it makes me gag!
Nope, no flour in cauliflower cheese
In terms of eating enough, i think so, when it comes to salad and veg i don't weigh it
I am drinking at least 3litres of water
i know its only 2lbs, but its on, i should be loosing surely if i am following the rules?
Its just so disheartening
i wont binge sayra but i worry if it carries on like this then i will be back to square one.