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Where have all the men gone? thread 14

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:21

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

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Betty79 · 23/11/2009 16:02

Oh lou, that bleeding sounds horrid. Hope u can get something sorted with doc. Glad u had a nice time with lb tho despite the weather!

Not done much today apart from go to gym this morning and a bit of tidying. Starting to worry that wont have much to talk about with bloke im going on date with on wed, cos we've been chatting on msn for about 6 weeks (more as friends to start with really) I already know quite a lot about him, so what will we talk about lol

lou33 · 23/11/2009 16:17

fill any silences with a snog if you fancy him, that should work

yes, i am glad the bleeding wasnt this bad last night, and only started up when i was nearly home

i have washed it out of my car seat

everytime i stand up it all pours out

i am going to the doctor on weds afternoon about it, i am not feeling great

hopefully the worst will be over by tomorrow

not sure when i will see lb again, definitely not next weekend as ds1 has his birthday and lb is going to see friends

we dont tend to make plans for the next time when we see each other it just kind of unfolds

he was very attentive last night though

sincitylover · 23/11/2009 16:34

I've had that terrible flooding Lou and it turned out I had fibroids and was anaemic.it's quite scary when each little movement induces gushing!

Are you taking iron?

Glad you were able to see lunchbox.

lou33 · 23/11/2009 16:48

the last 2 months were ok, this month is awful again though

i am just glad it didnt start at erotica, and that i didnt flood lb's bed

Betty79 · 23/11/2009 18:45

lol thanks lou will keep that in mind

lou33 · 23/11/2009 18:55

anytime betty

Janos · 23/11/2009 20:09

Oh lou I hope you feel better and get a decent sleep. Glad last night was good though

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 23/11/2009 20:15

evening all. back this morning.

WOW... what a hotel. themed rooms were amazing.staff were fab.. a little disappointed by the goodies/freebies for a 5 star and what we paid... thats one of my fav things about 5 stars is all those little individually packed ear buds and sewing kits

but... the ensuite was amazing... roll top bath which fitted me and irish in.. bear in mind he's 6ft 5 and i'm fair size and we were both fully emerged... the bath was surround but huge black velvet surtains you could draw round or leave open so you could see what was happening in the seperate massage shower and seperate sauna room/cubicle.

his n hers sinks.

i really really wish i knew what mattresses they have on the beds as i want one...now... everyone comments on how comfy mine is... but the ones in this hotel knocked you out the min you decided to sleep.

as for irish...... well... we tried to remain friends.. but i was staying at his sat night so we could leave early on the sunday.... ..and we were very successful at remaining friends...

till the sunday am... oooops.

it was then declared we were officially on a dirty wkd.. before we had actually set off on the trip

must admit. was a rather blissful escape.

we haven't discussed what it means. we wont be discussing what it means. as far as i'm concerned we are friends again now back on home grounds.

nothing has changed with this situ.

knight in shining armour is persistent shall we say.

belle - if it makes you happy and he doesn't have another wobble then good on you.

asbm - ... will try get msn on a bit when i'm studying

janos - good luck with move... and with cm... if it releaves some stress and you know the situ then where's the hassle.

betty - have you rescheduled a date? or giving up on that fish

singlemum - there are a few success on here.i've met a couple of great guys but the situ wasn't right for long term.

eve - whats happening with your foreign fella

lou - erotica looked great fun. hope docs sort you out.

scl - when is your big chat with samename?

everyone else if i've missed my apologises as quickly skimmed past few pages.

lou33 · 23/11/2009 21:43

your weekend sounds v exciting juice

Betty79 · 23/11/2009 22:32

Oooh Juice does sounds like u had a good one

and yes date is rescheduled for wed night lol

have been chatting to someone on facebook, he sent me a wink on that zoosk thing so i added him, turns out he lives in same road as me lol havent told him i live in same road yet, he knows i live in same area!!

lou33 · 23/11/2009 22:54

lol betty

that happened to me once, my next but one neighbours son messaged me on a dating site

hes made it clear he wouldnt mind taking me out but he isnt my type and dd1 has had a crush on him for years

she would be really pissed off if she knew i had his number, she was cross enough that he appeared on my facebook and msn (we chat on a friendly basis)

right i can barely stay awake, i have had my chat with lb, dont think im gonna get to see him for about 3 weeks now he is so busy, but we shall see

if i have left my shoes there as i think i have i will not be waiting that long, i'll go get them from his workshop even if he cant stop for lunch

lou33 · 23/11/2009 22:56

oh i also meant to say goodnight

goodnight

Betty79 · 23/11/2009 23:17

lol lou, luckily my road is really long and he said he lives at top end prob cos i said where i live and his end kinof goes into another area if that makes sense, he just asked me if i go to pub on my road tho which is techinically 4 doors away(bar a big car park)

hope u have a good nights sleep, and must be hard not getting to see lb very often

aseriouslyblondemoment · 24/11/2009 09:30

juicy
lou hope you've had a decent night's rest you sound positively wiped out
fingers crossed for you betty

lou33 · 24/11/2009 11:14

i fel ok today, i think i bled it all out in one afternoon, but i am still going to the doc tomorrow

my friend summoned me to hers this morning for a cooked breakfast too which has left me feeling rather content

she said i looked human again

LouIsAWeetbixKid · 24/11/2009 11:26

Once again I have been slack and not kept up with the news. Well I couldn't find the thread and then when I did the prospect of reading 33 pages was a bit to daunting. So what has been happening? Anything new and exciting?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 24/11/2009 11:46

ooh a full english always does the trick for me too
glad you're feeling a bit better

yeah all fine with me ta...how's your new chappie?

sincitylover · 24/11/2009 12:04

Hi all

juicy - will never have the convo with samename. he blew me out again the other saturday and I also sent him an email saying I was losing my patience with him.

Have just removed him from facebook friends as he openly joined a group for men who like 'busty babes who just want sex' . Was tempted to write on his wall - yeah that's fine as long as you can keep it up love. LOL but thought better of it. Can't get into all that juvenile crap

I've moved on and it looks as though he has. He just couldn't get his act together and always had an excuse for not being in touch blah blah blah blah.

Don't think I even want to be friends with him. Thought at one point that might be a better option.

BTw your weekends sounds fab love staying in posh hotels and generally living the high life.

Remotew · 24/11/2009 12:41

Weekend sound great Juicy. Not surprised you and Irish got it together at a place like that.

Forgot all about Turkish Delight. He wanted to come over, then I arranged my trip away and it petered out.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 24/11/2009 13:19

what a complete cock he is scl
i'm glad you resisted the urge to post a comment tho it's sooo tempting isn't it

sincitylover · 24/11/2009 13:37

Yes I agree - even if you are doing casual you don't piss around like that.

It/he was never right really and I knew it.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 24/11/2009 14:24

scl - [sad[.. his loss. tosser.

eve - how long till your off?.. and.. wish i could use hotel as excuse for our crossing the line.. but we crossed it before we'd even left his house to travel down

LouIsAWeetbixKid · 24/11/2009 14:28

Hey blondes

Well all is going well with geekboy. Better then expected. We have both fallen for each other in a big big scary way.

I can only see him on weekends which is hard but makes it better in the long run. We talk and email a lot too. He is lovely though. Opens car doors for me, lets me go first through doors etc. Makes me tea in bed

Only one problem though, actually you good ladies might be able to help.

He and his ex had really been more platonic for a while before they broke up. He has never slept with many women (as opposed to me being super slut) and for some reason now is suffering from some anxiety related impotence. He says it's not me. It is him. I can understand that it happens to most men every once in a while but every time I touch him he loses it. Any suggestions??? Sorry if TMI.

Remotew · 24/11/2009 14:35

Louweetabix. Not sure on that one maybe someone else could answer. Went out with someone once who just to loose it part way through. Patience and no pressure sorted it out.

Juicy, just remembered about the other one abroad who you might have meant. He's still in touch (yawn) I'm finding it boring tbh. Still not seen anymore pics.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 24/11/2009 14:37

LAWK - i'd ban sex for a week or 2. insist on froeplay only. take the pressure off him to perform iykwim.

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