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Where have all the men gone? thread 14

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:21

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

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thesouthsbelle · 21/11/2009 07:37

oh god juicy.

i'm thinking you still have a thing for Irish but really you want beachbum. but due to his withdrawing you're not gonna go there again till he makes more of a move. fair one.

off out shopping today with mum/aunty.

XH has swopped weekends mums having the boy tonight might go out not sure yet.

Gym boy has apologised, said and I quote 'I'm a nob, I'm so sorry' my response - yes you are. yet to decide if I will see him again. highly doubtful even thou the email has thrown up more questions nothing will change I don't think who knows.

thesouthsbelle · 21/11/2009 07:37

(oh and doesn't tooth paste work? innocent look, never had it tbh.)

lou33 · 21/11/2009 10:35

response?

grrr...

FairyLightsForever · 21/11/2009 12:03

belle I don't know if it's my place to say as I'm new to this thread, but surely if GB saw a future with you then he would have accepted your ds as part of your relationship. You can't really believe that he's considering a real commitment if he can't commit to both of you, afterall your son is a non-negotiable part of your life, end of.

Have a brilliant time tonight lou, your outfit sounds gorgeous!

I have my first ever internet date tomorrow, going to meet him in a piano bar for a couple of hours in the afternoon

Hope all those going out have a great time tonight...

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 21/11/2009 14:29

belle - sounds about right for my situ.

also agree with lou....response???whywhywhywhy

lou is it tonight the erotica thing?

went to bed early last night as only getting couple of hrs tonight before driving down. woke up with missed calls and messages from all 3.

definately a buses issue going on. shining knight from sat is reconsidering him "casual only" offer. FFS..stupid games... trying to get a casual thing, then when i'm equally upfront and say i dont want that he then wants to change his mind as my my "straight-talking nature" is what he's looking for.

oh BUGGER OFF.. i'm not in mood. i get enough of this messing around with beachbum.

looking forward to escaping tonight with irish....its so blooming uncomplicated with him.we hang out. have good time in our own little world... albiet a friends world. i quite like disappearing there think i might possibly be turning phone off completely.

fairy good luck on your date.

any one else with dates>?

thesouthsbelle · 21/11/2009 15:02

tried the ignoring him thing for 4 days (well 5) the texts I received from him were really out of order. then he's calmed down and apologised. I've told him he's out of order I ask to be left alone and I still have calls I ignore him & I still have calls/texts.

I want him in my life in a lot of ways but not in others.

XH actually said 'don't be bullied by him is that cos he wants to do it! lol.

Remotew · 21/11/2009 15:52

Hi just checking in.

Not much to report, busy thinking about my holiday which is a week Monday.

The one from over the road hasn't asked to see me again. Been chatting on fb he has arranged to go out tonight but did ask if there was any chance he would see me out. No no chance. I'm having a night in with X factor again!

FWB is in the area tonight, he's going to a party but asked it he could come over in oh about half an hour. I said yes. Not invited me to the party I should add .

If I had done my legs, which I still havent, I would be in the mood to drag him upstairs. Damn holiday preparations, holding off to be all smooth for the bikini.

Juicy, to many men again. lol

Lou have a fab time, photos on FB???

Fairy, hope the date goes well.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 21/11/2009 16:14

eve at hairy legs.. i'm sure it wont stop you if you fancy it though

lou33 · 21/11/2009 21:10

i am knackered, erotica was great fun we had a real laugh, tried lots of things out, got asked to have our pic taken with lots of people, saw some shows, and i seemed to unwittingly find myself a little sub slave , who got extremely excited at the sight of me and could not contain the glee on his face bless him

shook him off tho

oh i also spanked quite a few people, including a couple of stilt walkers dressed as a dr and nurse (the doc came up behind me and started stroking my hair whilst i was watching someone do dildo hoopla)

my feet now hate me and i am ravenous

pics just up on fb now

aseriouslyblondemoment · 21/11/2009 22:44

glad you had a nice girls day out lou
and batman is emigrating
think us fit threaders should start our own campaign...
eve he's one helluva cheeky sod fwb!!
belle PLEASE DON'T even go there
juicy like buses they are lol,hope you have a fab one and get yourself on msn when you're back lady

lou33 · 21/11/2009 22:56

batman didnt make it , i figured he wouldnt, but he did send me a few messages asking if i would send him a pic in my outfit, but i told him to look on fb

another fiend arrived just after i left, and is also off to the after show party, but even in my wildest dreams i wouldnt have lasted for that (not to mention the cost of the ticket)

i am just loading a couple more of me feeling the aftermath, plus a few of myself and dd2 messing about, and i am off to bed, sooooo tired

but soooo worth it

aseriouslyblondemoment · 21/11/2009 23:40

don't think we can allow the lovely batman to leave the country lou
think he's one of our fav fellas on this thread

lou33 · 21/11/2009 23:43

i know

is it wrong of me to hope he doesnt get the job?

aside from his utter hotness, he is actually one of the nicest guys i have known, totally sweet and lovely

he is my reserve plan, at him request, i think we should stop him from this lunacy

lou33 · 21/11/2009 23:46

his not him, too tired from all that spanking today

for anyone who isnt on my facebook, here is a pic of my outfit for erotica (tho irl it was more low cut , and you cant see the corset belt , i dont know why i look so prim there)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 21/11/2009 23:52

yep we can't allow him to leave..what can we do to stop him?

Remotew · 22/11/2009 00:09

Am ery pissed tonight. FBW came over I wanted to grab him sooo much, but remembered that we are only mates now. I fed him spag bog!

I have a soft spot for him.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 22/11/2009 00:57

nice typos there eve.....

thesouthsbelle · 22/11/2009 08:45

eve.

Lou - smoking. glad you had a nice time. batman? how can we keep him in the country then?

ahem.... sorry girls I caved & went there (we all knew I would - so have no will power!) even shaved both me legs lol. I got there, and the actions deffo spoke louder than the words of his email. he actually asked to talk about it as well. :D :D we're taking things one day at a time. (yes i'm totally mad - I know this). he apologised big time, & was v v attentive. we shall see.

lou33 · 22/11/2009 11:38

thanks

it looked better irl i think

wrt gb you seem to have made your mind up

i just hope he doesnt shit on you again

aseriouslyblondemoment · 22/11/2009 12:09

belle
lou don't you think that the thought of several horny women lusting after him might persuade him to stay...?

thesouthsbelle · 22/11/2009 12:11

several honey women - have we seen pics of batman?

if he does it again - it will be the last time for sure. deffo not going thru the last week-10 days again. we shall see.

thesouthsbelle · 22/11/2009 12:11

horney not honey.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 22/11/2009 12:17

i have

sincitylover · 22/11/2009 13:45

Hi all just checking in. Not much happening here atm

Lou shame about batman.

Erotica sounds fab will def be going next year.

Belle - - do you feel sure about what you are doing or is there any wavering inside?

Eve -

Juicy - ah yes the bus effect - have a good time with Irish

I am generally very unimpressed with the type of men messaging me on Smooch and POF so I read and don't reply.

Think garden man just wants an email correspondent - he didn't take the bait about going to visit his garden.

Oh forgot to say recvd txt out of the blue last weekend from Tigger (hot younger guy) asking if I was interested in some naughty fun. Text him bk saying thx but no thx

Am being very good about not texting exbf while he 'sorts his life out 'cos it's a mess' . Am really quite proud of myself cos previously found that very hard.

The giant (who is working in my area) and has nice gf asked if he could come round to my house - er you're having a laugh !!!!!!

Had swine flu vaccine yesterday morning an am pleased to say that apart from sore arm no side effects yet.

lou33 · 22/11/2009 14:40

i will post his pic again belle just so you can have a look (temporarily)

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