Where have all the men gone? thread 14

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it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

lou, you mean he hasn't washed his clothes in 10 years! phew he must be one smelly mother f

am off to the Isle of Weight this weekend with the running club, from what I can see there wont be too much drinking and smoking going on! {darn it, always ready to blagg a fag me}

nm is coming too, we are so going to be in different running groups, or rather I will make sure we are in different running groups

He is way to fast for me and a bit of a smug git with it.

What's everbody else up to, any hot dates?

i think he washes them in fag butts and stale beer , with a dash of stale sweat to keep them soft

i'm going to erotica on saturday and planning to see bf on sunday, but i think i can feel my period is imminent

i'm around, am off shopping on sat in town for a new frock for the works xmas do next week. hopefully i'll get into a size 10 - you never know lol.

aside from that not a right lot tbh, am this time stepping back from the dating game. still emailing the sailor thou he's home on the 14th Dec so we said about having a coffee - nothing set it stone thou, if we do we do, not fussed tbh.

also just trying to sort out my courses to get into uni - the ones i've been doing are not enough so I'll need to do an access course - which by the looks of it means going back on benefits again for a year until I can get all of the uni student loans/top ups etc.

i'm off to hopefully buy a ponytail tomorrow , for saturday

where do u get those from ?

there are loads of places online but i dont have time to wait, so my friend says there is a place in woking which is about 25 mins away

there's a good place in basingstoke as well lou if it's closer?

its further, but i do have a friend who lives there, near the football ground, but she will be at work

my next door but one neighbours son works as an ambulance technician out of basingstoke

its doable but i'd rather not iyswim

thank you though

oh really? there's where my brother lives (by the retail parks) or is that the rugby ground?

god i have no idea, its near a big roundabout with a large pizza express nearby

i havent been there much

yeah that's the one they're by there - brother isn't impressed that over the road seem to be growing some suspect sort of things as there's lights on a lot and the windows are wet from condensation. lol.

just had another email from the sailor with another pic - looks quite fetching in his uniform. (and I do love a forces boy!)

i think we should see these pics

lol.

woke up to an email from gymboy it would appear hes' been ringing my phone as well - but it's at nans so... he's asking to see me again. he's sounding really really down in the email. apparently I wasn't a fling, and he could see something more with us.

would it be stupid to actually think there maybe a chance?

I don't know.

you would be very stupid, how many more chances will you be giving him?

however it is your life and your choice (not ours) even though it appears he is the one who is in control

i think if he was genuinely wanting to make a proper go of it he would be showing it in his actions not in an easily knocked up email, words are cheap

wouldnt he be turning up and telling you face to face?

he just wants you to go running back round to him on the basis of a few well strung together words

just catching up hope everyone is ok?
dress looks nice lou what are you wearing it with?
am relying on you to come back with some tales from your jolly lol
belle hope you're coping ok there,like lou says it's totally your choice here re:gb
but if i were you i would take these emails/texts with a pinch of salt,it's v.easy to say something but he needs to step up to the plate big time here
def think it's a good idea for you to start seeing other blokes tbh will help you lots and if he is serious about you he'll do something about it

i was wearing it with my ultra skinny jeans and knee high heeled boots yesterday

i got my pony tail for tomorrow i keep swishing it

so i will be wearing a just below the knee length v fitted pencil skirt with a deep red loose silky style shirt and a black corset belt that stops just under my boobs , with fine fishnets which have a bow on the back and a pair of court style 5 inch black slingbacks

and my teacher style glasses of course

i cant wait, i am going to do a run through with the make up later and plot train times so i can work out what time to go get exh

i may possibly have 50/50 persuaded batman to join us too, there is a possibility he is moving to australia in feb, so it may be one of the rare chances we get to meet to say bye (not in that way lol)

i doubt he will make it though as he is out tonight until the wee small hours, but he said he would like to see me all done up

one more sleep!

oh btw exh is now a father again, baby was born yesterday in thailand

at least he looks more like him this time round (yes he sent me pics)

well that was nice of him lou!!

have fun over the w.e.

nothing surprises me, last time he thought the baby was his he asked me opinions on what to call her

this one at least looks more like him

ugh sorry i am repeating myself (head full of a million things to do before tomorrow)

lol. don't worry about it.

how nice of him thou to consult you!

shame he has brought yet another child into the world that he is unable to support or be properly involved with isnt it?

and unlike here there isnt a welfare state to fall back on when feckless fathers dont uphold their responsibilities

waiting on immac.. i have 7 mins to update

so whats everyone up to date wise this wkd.

i've none.

will be going to irish's when he finishes work on sat night. kipping for couple of hrs in spare room then leaving early hrs of morning to be at the metro centre for opening time. then off to our swish hotel... as friends ... no ideas you lot. my friends just keep laughing everytime i say "friends".. lol. perhaps they know me too well.

guy from last sat has text couple of times. very upfront and honest. he's just out a long relationship. willing to date. but looking for no relationship of any sort???? no idea what he wants then?? i date to accompany to dinner/cinema?? who knows. i give up guessing what these men want.

beachbum still asks for weekly requests to dinner/lunch. have declined all so far as its just too difficult going over the old ground every meeting and not being allowed to so much as touch. not initiating any contact. this will either dwindle to nothing. or he will get his arse in gear. responding with texts in small phrases/single words as otherwise texts end up drawn out in a serious discussion via text which i detest. have deleted him from msn and limited his facebook access too.

em... what else... nothing. that is enough .

so 3 men taking up headspace. none supplying sex. 3 wanting dinner/dates.... only 1 getting my time for them.

who can work out what that means.

tell me as my head is numb and confused

oh... and coventry bloke is up this wkd... shall have to meet him to return his clothes at some point without attacking him.

and who knows how to hide bite marks? still have one from last sat... and foundation isn't covering.. not just love bite... proper teeth marks type, bruises that yellow/green way almost gone but still visible.