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Where have all the men gone? thread 14

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:21

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:22

hmm it took monty's and not mine

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lou33 · 27/10/2009 20:27

ooh no the philips stays here for him to try, dont be daft

last time i was over there it hadnt arrived

hehe @ less picky

you know its odd because this last week or so i have had 3 men come onto me, even tho they knew about lb

one of them is someone i know who was just being out and out blatant wanting me to have a 3some with him and his mate , and he has a longterm gf

the other 2 said if things dont work out with lb to let them know, one of them was batman

i will always have a soft spot for batman, think he does for me too

Haunty27 · 27/10/2009 20:27

Lol at new thread title.

Ninah - maybe 'cos mine was shorter. I wanted to leave it to you to start next one anyway lol.

ninah · 27/10/2009 20:31

oh, batman .. I think we all liked batman on here
but you know lou, you sound quite tempt proof
Yes sorry about title - was in hurry to continue, sounds like they're all lined up on telegraph wires about to fly away for the winter

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:33

and I'm always shocked at how being lurved up attracts more of same, you know
but 3 lou - I think you should spread your riches

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sincitylover · 27/10/2009 20:36

just marking my spot.

Sorry to hear your news juicy. But you sound quite philosophical about it.

Have been to see an old friend and her dcs today.

Have a free night this Sat and not sure what I will be doing.

lou33 · 27/10/2009 20:47

well fee free to take up the offer of the 3 some i refused lol

the third guy is a property developer who has been asking me out on and of for ages but i dont fancy him enough , even if i wasnt seeing lb

i am pretty tempt proof if i am seeing someone tbh

but batman will be next in line if it doesnt work out

dontouchTHEMUMMYSpecialjuice · 27/10/2009 20:49

ladies. hello,

it was him who took 1 hr to decide.

i didn't give him a dealine. he was supposed to come over tonight with that thingy. but he's said he will post it as i need to exchange a game thing before 21 days.says he cant face me.hmmm... maybe i've been slightly harsh with my words.

ninah - i dont mind risk. but i only want to take risk that they will be faithful to me, and not lie, cheat, steal.

however,... this was a guaranteed risk. due to rear its ugly head at some point. not something i'm willing to take.

monty - it would need to be a pretty amazing piece of back tracking for me to change my mind on this.

lou - what have you left?

ninah · 27/10/2009 20:50

rj I salute you, you have style

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ninah · 27/10/2009 20:51

yes lou pass them over
I blag the blatant threesome

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dontouchTHEMUMMYSpecialjuice · 27/10/2009 20:54

ninah - no salute.being cold-hearted brings no joy.

he was a bit of a playboy too.perhaps his pride is hurt.

i'm tempted to bugger off to pof to see if he's gone back online already.

shall i?......

lou33 · 27/10/2009 20:54

some adult themed things and underwear

you can have the 3some, been there done that, not interested now

blatant 3 some has a long term gf you know?

lou33 · 27/10/2009 20:55

dont go on pof and look, it wont serve any purpose

ninah · 27/10/2009 20:59

lou I'm gone right off nest building
send them round
rj you are not cold hearted. Totally not. You treat people with honestly and respect. Irish and you were getting on so well you were offline ages .. that's how it was
So all I'm saying is was it really a Big Talk or was it a version of The Hair's Wrong, magnified ....
Dust settling etc

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thesouthsbelle · 27/10/2009 21:02

yay new thread.

erm juicy - no don't go on POF again to see if he's been on - agree with Lou there.

we've had quite a few successes really haven't we?

is anyone else watching most haunted live?

ninah · 27/10/2009 21:02

no who's on?

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thesouthsbelle · 27/10/2009 21:03

oh also, as my nan once said - no one likes rejection, so if he is on there again will only be to nurse his bruised ego!

thesouthsbelle · 27/10/2009 21:04

it's the 8 faces of evil, over 8 nights apparently.

I wonder how much of it is made up for effect - cos surely they can't prove it's all real can they?!

lou33 · 27/10/2009 21:05

we have it on

my kids are addicted and its half term so i said they could watch it

ninah, you make me laugh

dontouchTHEMUMMYSpecialjuice · 27/10/2009 21:06

proper talk. continued with the texting today.

he has put his profile back active today. all spruced up. bless him. really am glad he's getting back out there. best thing to get over is getting back on the horse.. so to speak .

actually i would need a new one as deleted my old one when seeing beachbum.

thesouthsbelle · 27/10/2009 21:08

how do u feel with the texting juicy - is it the same as it was b4 or different?

lou33 · 27/10/2009 21:09

my profile on pof has been hidden for months, long before lb

i didnt delete it in case i changed my mind so i wouldnt have to fill in all the gubbins again

i think most haunted is a load of old rubbish really, i dont believe a single second of it

witcheseve · 27/10/2009 21:09

Sneezing in to mark my place. My manager sent me home this afternoon. I'm full of cold, streaming eyes and nose. Started with a chesty cough on Saturday, felt better by Sunday then this today. I don't feel ill as in flu ill but this head cold is making my head fuzzy.

Reckon I should have a sick day tomorrow, will be the first since I started in January.

ninah · 27/10/2009 21:11

good lou
now rj are you sure? it just seems a bit silly when you get on but he has mentioned his family fantasies (sorry but an hour to think is RRRRApid) and you say well bye then
I agree, his ego is hit hard, that's why he's back on
how much do you - honestly - care?

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dontouchTHEMUMMYSpecialjuice · 27/10/2009 21:17

his initial text was kinda serious. had to talk that round and ended up light hearted again. then again tonight again he tried to be serious. i sent a couple. but managed to swerve it back to casual.

if the serious continues for days i will just cut contact. really drives me nuts talking about feelings over and over again.

this is mainly because everytime i see dc dad.. we have the convo of why i'm not moving back, and why i wont give another chance. kinda worn down on the serious chat front.

eve - hope you feel better soon.

not sure about reactivating profile. still talking to beachbum. plus have sat night to look forward to, that'll keep me occupied for the moment and have a break from it.

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