Where have all the men gone? thread 14

[ninah]

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

juicy-get u! 2 dates already think this is where i went wrong only going for one date at a time lol

the one for next week has said he wont go on any more dates till he meets me... hasn't requested i do the same.. but i said

"aww thats sweet"

i already had the other lined up

check u out juicy! really need to take a leaf I think!

Fluffy, he's not gay is he. Don't mean to offend.

Yes juicy you go girl!

ASBM- I'm OK really just need to get back in the zone.

or move to a new one

ditto the gay thing.

No, he's not gay! Just had the ex from hell from what I gather, took everything from him, even his friends. Has no trust in people at all poor thing. He only moved here a couple of months ago, I'm not sure if he doesn't want anything because he may go home and doesn't want either of us to get too attached , he's lovely though. No gay vibes from him.

itm wow serious talking or what hmm.prob.too tmi even for our thread iykwim so won't pry
as long as you're happy and enjoying things that's the main thing..how are dcs?
and dare i say it how is the divorce proceeding?have the two of them met yet?exh and bf i mean lol
rj oh god you do keep me entertained,hey fast working studying today lol
and blimey a chiropodist?!think it's the first one of those we've had on here
jeeze lets hope he doesn't tell you some gruesome tales{wretching emoticon}don't know about you but am not a feet person
scl have you managed a bit of zone time tonight?
betty yes believe me there are normal ones out there who don't use their mobile as a tease.what i would say is either play them at their own game or just ignore

asbm - rofl. not a chiropodist. just a name from a joke we had on MSN. he's actually training to be same as your lovely bf.

think I need to go on a difft site.

The main one I am on (besides Pof) seems to have gone downmarket and also has introduced charging for extra exposure has wall and on the wall seems to have loads of tacky photos of laydeez (some considerably older than me) with the camera angled down their cleavage. WTF is that all about.

Now I am ample in the chest department but like to reveal that a bit later IYKWIM. Or am I being prudish.

Actually like really dirty stuff but only when we have got the formal introductions out of the way LOL

I also looked out of curiousity at one of these profiles of a lady who had a very sexy nickname only to find that she was moaning on her profile about being targetted for sex!!

Personally would not put anything so slanted on my profile. Think you have to 'play the game'.

what are they training for ?

scl wouldn't you like to know..
and ewww.these women slappers sound awful have seen some of their profiles and jesus the mind boggles
why go on a supposed dating site when there are other sites to meet their needs?
but am sure that we've all had this convo before and no doubt we all will again..
..its like those 'marrieds' who use them

lol so what other dating sites are any good then ladies, ive been on pof and dating direct(but havent paid)?

those kind of pics always seem a bit desperate to me

yes glad you agree, I am not normally judgy like that.

Very mild mannered me!!

I do wear low cut tops etc but don't put photos like that in the shop window.

oh lou - I really do have to give up smoking for medical reasons.

Thing is since I was told about it it has made me want to smoke all the more. Not a heavy smoker - about 4 a day usually after 6pm!!

the worst thing anyone can do to me is say don't do something becaue I want it all the more. Rebellious streak

i'm really wanting one right now scl

i only ever put head shots of me on dating sites

me too and am going to have one - have to see practice nurse at end of Nov. - think that will focus my mind on healthy diet and lifestyle.

yes headshot girl here too.

i ran out on monday night and havent been that bothered about smoking until this evening

now i wish i had bought some earlier lol

I sort of see it as reward for stressful life but need to get a grip

to lou and scl
jeeze i need one aft.reading that hideous thread by the 'apparent' widowed dad
had bitten my lip but certain things make me and felt that this was getting out of hand
anyhow back to the thread
tell us more about the gardener,iirc he's a back burner from a while ago

which thread is that? Can't see it.

Garden man works in very famous garden in London. Seems very sweet from our email correspondence and says he wants to meet. When I met samename and removed myself I mailed him to say I was leaving and why.

Then he spotted me on there again and mailed me. He is divorced with two dcs. Seems quite flowery with his language (tho not obnoxiously so) must be working with the plants LOL

Will keep corresponding and see what occurs.

Also must txt exbf and say I am wasting my time. I know I have to do it.

i just remembered i had some fag papers so made a rollie out of the butts lol