where the hell do u find a good man

[starscream]

where have they all gone

is it zippitt? I did not know that. Dating, then!

i hate the word genuine

God i hate creating a profile

It is what you want but not v exciting to respond to. Might need to use the old standby about good sense of humour, fun to be with or something, that will make fellas feel better about responding I think. Sort of flattery.

yes not hang out, dating deffo. why do you hate genuine?

What other categories do you have to fill in? It might make a difference as to what to put here.

Hve to fill in a descrioption of me

OK so in the bit about what you are looking for I think you should say what sort of dates you like e.g. to go to the cinema, theatre, slob out on the sofa with etc.

I'm just registering with datetheuk.. tis free.

gebnuine just sounds too old fashioned to me

and it doesnt make any difference because right toissers call themselves genuine too

but lou disagrees i think

im so desperate ill have anyoine contact me and then rule them out after i just like getting messages

hang out is not sex, intimate encounter is sex

dating is more likely to make guys think you just want a shag than hang out

wait...... maybe that is where i am going wrong

Right, I have finnished it.

The description part is pretty empty but can fill that up with more as I think of it.

oh please no, dont use genuine, loyal, faithful, reliable, honest etc

and dont bang on about what a great soh you have and how crazy you are

all of that = NEXT!

all blokes will say they are decent and honest on there

they wont say they are lying cockbags, because they wouldnt get any interest

You need to put st they will feel good about themselves for saying that they are e.g. good looking, funny, good job - or am I too cynical?

i disagree about dating and hang out lou

i said i wanted them to be able to talk to me

i need to go look at my pof profile

iirc mine is pretty blunt

zippi, we can disagree, it's just based on my opinion of pof thats all

lol, actually my profile is bordering on being quite aggressive

"I dont like timewasters or bullshitters or those who send me badly written porn, and i will not date married men, so if you are any of those then do not contact me.

I like someone who can hold a conversation, is confident without being arrogant

If i am old enough to be your mother then you are too young for me, so please do not email"

that's part of it, lol

yeah lou33 well worth a revisit! As it is in effect they have to say, "I am not shit, give me a chance" to respond, as opposed to "I am a great man, hear me roar!"

Sorry, got distracetd looking at mugshots.

I haven't had much luck on POF so far. or match.com!

What's your profile like then tortoise, if this is the clinic for dating ads?

I've been very to the point in the profile I've jhust created

but you get lots of responses from yours lou

but maybe they are the stronger more assertive types

as opposed to the nice weedy ones lol