where the hell do u find a good man

[starscream]

where have they all gone

LOL

Yes Lostdad, you myst tell everyone your name. Everyone knows mine now.

yes come on spill it!

good luck LD & moh who have dates this week.

think new chap might have run his course already! - I miss chasing the fishes!

moh, heard from the rugby player?

I've got a good man. But I'm bored frankly. I think I want a really bad one

lol dtm

am looking forward to my date on saturday, but not expecting anything

not today.. I don't login to msn or anything while at work. I'm not convinced he is actually a rugby player and if he is I certainly do think he plays professionally.

Hmm....don't want to make it obvious to anyone who I know who may be reading this who I am...

Message withdrawn

DS's have just told me their Dad is using POF now. Great! I didn't want him knowing i am on there, now he will probably find me as in same area.
But i will also be able to see his too and laugh about it!

lol, tortoise!

I just had a bloke IMing me.. he wrote one sentence then called me 'love' I shut the window down, AIBU?

cant recall if he said he was pro or semi pro

anyway he is a nob regardless

tortoise, my exh found me on pof a couple of months ago, i had words with him about it

On POF where it says 'Allow a user to see I viewed their profile: Yes No. Does this mean if i say no then they won't know i looked?

yup

Oh good! Guess who's profile i have found!

Finally, have found someone who I actually really wanted to send a message to.

Just need them to reply now

Good luck Nutty.
I haven't found anyone else to message yet!

It takes me ages to find anyone Tort. I tend to click on their profile and start getting excited but then get so far through it and think 'hmm no' LOL.

This one sounds great and looks cute, so there must be something hidden that is wrong with him

I think i am too picky!
And get bored of looking after a while lol!

I have hot date tonight.. wish me luck.

When is your dat lostdad?

good luck moh.

Good luck to everyone with dates

No new messages for me. Guy I messaged last night has read but not replied, but no big surprise there really.

I get bored of it too Tort, there are only so many boring/sleezy/stupid messages I cna take before I wonder why I am bothering.

good luck moh, let me know if you need a get out call!

mine is picking me up on saturday so i dont have to drive

its not something i usually allow, but this time i am making an exception

My one went well! She seemed normal...which always worries me because I only generally seem to end up with nutters. She's keen to meet up again, or so she says.

It's on my profile that I've got a son and I didn't mention him last night though and neither did she. Not sure if she knows (or just doesn't care?), but I didn't want to go into the `You know I've got a kid' thing just in case she thinks I'm not over my ex...

I'm wondering how to approach the I've got a kid thing. it's not on my profile.

I'm glad the date went well LD. When are you planning to phone her again? there has to be an end to nutters eventually or nobody would ever get hitched.. at least that's what I keep telling myself after a long run of nutters/losers

I've just been power shopping. new coat, new scarf, 2 new pairs of shoes, new top.. was only intending to get shoes (oh well) at least I now have a full 'first date outfit' that I can wear time & again. lol

Nutty & Tort (sounds like a poncey Ice-cream that).. I would say just dip in and out briefly. Oh and also if you are searching I found the search facility doesn't work very well.. I have to use a friends postcode to get all the people in my local area. When I use my postcode I only get a handful

Have to say - before my son was born I wouldn't have considered dating someone who had a kid (although I would now).