I felt like that the first time round Nutty.. hence I left then this thread spurred me on to retunr..
try some others like Dating Direct, Date the UK, dating for parent sand stuff..
also I would say search briefly everyday and message everybody who catches your eye... the 4 guys I'm chatting too now I didn't see straight away.
I might be singing a different tune after Wednesday though lol.. I might be posting "I'm never interent dating again" lol