SFX good luck for your mini-sfx's 1st day at nursery! (she'll be fine - don't worry)
re the schools, you need to send your application to the council if its a state school - you can then track it on the council website to ensure they get it - think we did ours online so it wouldn't get lost in post. If its a church school, you send 2 applications at the same time - one to school and one to council.
Re the free hours a nursery - they will tell you when she becomes eligable and should sort it all out for you. You just have to fill in a "timesheet" at the beginning of each term, confirming her sessions, which they will give to you (the sheet that is).
SJ it might be easier for you to elect for a VBAC then change yor mind at the last minute, rather than the other way round, IYKWIM. Hospitals do love to enforce their controlling little rules don't they? Did you start a thread about it?