Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!

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New thread as I see the old one is about the run out.

Pamela I quite literally wake every morning and wonder how you are and check Mumsnet...so glad to see your update today. You are so wonderfully brave sharing your story and journey. Sending you millions of positive vibes.

Lovely to hear from you Pamela. And I’m really loving all the messages, pictures, prayers and thoughts on here as I’m sure everyone else is too. 🪷🪷🪷🪷🪷

So happy to see your update Pamela ❤️ hope you have got your pain under control now - think of you often as even though I don’t know you personally you are an incredible person and a lovely lovely lady xx so much good luck for tomorrow sending you hugs xx

Glad to hear things are progressing for treatment tomorrow, great news! Good luck getting your porta cath inserted. Sending love and light yr way xx

Thanks for the update. Very best wishes.
Here’s my fluffy dog when she was a silly pup!

Thinking of you and cheering you on. So glad you're making progress with the treatment, even if though it's been an absolute feat of endurance for you. I'm willing you on to keep putting one (metaphorical) foot in front of the other xx

Hi Pamela
I'm so relieved you are able to post - you are in my thoughts x

Good luck with the chemo xx

Afternoon Pamela, thought you might like to see a moth (I think it’s a moth, might be a butterfly - not my area of expertise) that landed on my DS’s shorts yesterday. He was sooooo pleased with himself and now figures he’s some sort of Dr Doolittle.

Thinking of you all x

Hello Lovely. Please don't feel obliged to update or apologise for lack of updates. I think most of us are on this thread because we want you to see that you are in our thoughts and prayers - we don't need to be acknowledged or thanked. We just want to be sure that anytime you choose to check the thread, it will be clear that so many of us have you in our thoughts as we go about our days. We are all rooting for you.

No D-Dog today, but here are the Deer in Richmond Park this afternoon. They are just coming to the end of birthing season and it looks like all the boys are having a little break from the maternity wards!

Oh Pamela, it’s so lovely to read your message. Like everyone else, you are in my thoughts every day and I am sending you so much love and support. You’re truly amazing.

I think here people want to post regardless of any updates so as and when Pamela is able to look she can see the support is ongoing. As it is. x

Thank you for posting, It’s so good to hear from you! You are amazing, so please you have had some progress. Hopefully your pains are now manageable and you can get the rest you need.
You have so many people thinking of you and sending millions of good wishes. 🙏🌸🍀😘

I think of you every day Pamela, & check mumsnet often each day to see how you are. So happy to see your post today. I think you are amazing the way you keep posting when you are feeling so ill.

Hope the port insertion has gone OK. I've been told I can have one next time I need chemo, I had a Hickman line last time & it was a bit of a pain.

Adding another picture to hopefully help you smile. It's the fairy garden we made this summer. 🧚‍♂️🧚‍♀️🧚

I too am so relieved you are able to post, don't feel you have to if you are feeling too unwell or have had so little sleep you haven't the energy. However, really appreciate the effort to update so we don't all Fear The Worst! Please God may the chemo work quickly and effectively. My understanding is you can live a normal life with 20% liver function, there's a huge reserve capacity, so hopefully once the tumour shrinks down, everything will improve. xx

Sending you the best vibes from Dublin. I hope the chemo goes well 💐💐
Thought my dogs cheery face might make you smile 😊
You’re amazing

All best wishes Pamela. Put yourself first and look after yourself. Do what's best for you x

Hi Pamela, just a quick one to send some daily love and strength. I hope the latest procedure has gone really well and you start to feel the benefits very soon x
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Sarah x

Great to hear from you Pamela x

I hope the Portacath Insertion goes well.

look forward to your update, when you feel able, can't wait to hear the good news 😊 & take the weight of some of the bad.

xx

Lovely to read your update. Me and my baby girl went to a wildlife park on Sunday, enjoy this pic x

Pamela, I am buzzing for you about treatment starting tomorrow. I got everything crossed it can go ahead asap!

As others have said, do not feel any pressure to update at all. You deserve all the kind messages and support without doing anything x

Hoping all goes well tomorrow. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and all your family too 💐💕xx

Continuing to hold you all in my heart ❤️

Thinking of you Pamela and wishing you the very best for your treatment tomorrow 💕 xx

Hi Pamela, lovely to hear from you but just to echo what others have said the most important thing is for you to conserve your energy to continue your fight to be well, nearly all on here continue to message to reassure you and yours that we are still here, sending messages of hope and positive healing energies.

I continue to hold you and your family in my thoughts and send you all much love and positive energy. Take care lovely lady xx